Knightmare365

The Cat's Tale

A meowing from outside, so I went to see

The neighbour's cat brought a gift to me

A poor little kitten, a few days old

Little sad eyes and shivering with cold.

I wasn't surprised, as this had happened before

But I always took them back to the neighbour's door

They took them and tomorrow they would give them away

So this time this kitten was here to stay

At least 'till it was old enough to be found a new home

I had a cat allergy, so couldn't have one of my own

Days turned to weeks, little Mindy put on weight

She made me smile, she made me laugh, this little cat was ...great

Over a year later she's still here with me

I just couldn't let her go, you see?

Black & grey stripes, little paws of white

For a half-starved, frozen kitten, she's turned out all right

Turns out, little Mindy the cat is allergic to fish

She lives well on the chicken pieces put in her dish.

Me? I'm on allergy pills every single day

But I love my cat, and wouldn't have it any other way.

She's telling you to wait a year or two, and you're doing it ? Are you mad. Isn't this much the same as "Lets be friends" or " It's not you, it's me".( so many cliches ) I'm just speculating, but it sounds like she is telling you 'no chance' but in a polite way so as not hurt you. Get out there and get yourself a female, never maind waiting on one that may or may not ever happen.

Most people have several 'cyber friends'. thereforeeee they are unable to give all of them their attention at the same time. Rather than tell you "I cant talk to you, I'm, talking to whoever" and risk you falling out with them, they put you on block. They talk to you when they are able to just as you talk to them when you can. I do realise there will be exceptions to this.

There's nothing shallow about wanting to meet her. Even if you were seeing this girl everyday, which you aren't, doesnt mean to say you would be okay living together. You may feel you know her but living under the same roof with someone is very different. Can't she stay for a week or two then go back, just to see how you get on ( as Hannibal said). It seems the most logical solution.

I agree with kuhl in regard to the witty comments. If you can beat her with wit and sarcasm and still remain calm it will drive her mad. she might try to constantly get at you, this will be noticed by other workers, and, lets face it, nobody likes a bully. In the end you will win.

Go get her !!

Debisfun

Looks to me as if you have answered your own question.

There is no point at all in thinking ' This could happen' or 'what if' ( I do it all the time too.) There is always going to be that ' unknown variable' that you cannot predict. Do you really want to get back with your ex ? or are you just bored, tired or lonely. If you left it for a couple of days would still want to send him an email asking him out ? You could always take the chance and it may work out alright, but you wont know unless you do it. At the end of the day it is up to you to make that decision. good luck whatever you decide.

it's not often anybody agrees with me.

Thanks tiger_lilies

Never mind this girl, get yourself sorted before you try to concentrate on anything else. Getting out of the hell hole you live in is very, VERY difficult. Next time you start to put off some task, just do it, get subliminal audio stuff off the net to help your confidence levels. Try Kazaa. get yourself out and about. it will take time but it's going to be worth it. believe me I know what i'm talking about. At least try to act confident, just fake it to begin with. Get that ego built up. It's up to you.

Someone with Hayfever or an allergy is going to be very happy then if this 1/10 thing is true. They'll be smiling and sneezing all day...

If she wants you to do it, chances are she'll take your hand and SHOW you what she likes. Don't worry about these things. Experience will come through time.

Emotional infidelity- would that be like communicating with someone in an intimate way who you have no intention of meeting for sex or whatever..., calls, txt messages, online chatting, cybersex even. Is it infidelity, is it wrong. maybe it keeps a lonely husband or a bored wife from going insane, maybe its a form of support and escape, or maybe its none of these and I'm talking crap.

Thanks

Christi

I sincerely hope this works out for you. Get the visa, and get yourself accross to the UK.( take an umberella 'cause it usually rains here all the time) You're both single, you feel that you love each other. As you said, you got to know each other well before pics were exchanged, so it's not just based of physical attraction. This could be your soulmate. Best of luck Christi.

A Moment In Time.

We walk along the beach, hand in hand

Leave a trail of footprints upon the soft sand

The orange sun low in the sky

Lapping of the waves, a lone seagull's cry

For such a long time we have waited for this

You face me and smile, I steal a quick kiss

You laugh and blush, the wind in your hair

You act like you're shocked, but don't really care

We love each other like never before

It wouldn't be possible to love someone more

We look into each other's eyes, the sky is streaked with red

Not a word passes from our lips, yet so much is said

We hold each other in this magical place

Filled with emotion, a tear rolls down my face

We will be together beyond the end of time

As we walk along the beach, your hand in mine

If you just kiss in front of your friends they may get the hint and leave. If not, just ignore it and kiss each other anyway. After all watching two people kiss isn't the most interesting thing to do, they will get fed up eventually.

Battles

I close my eyes and drift to sleep

the disturbing thoughts are buried deep

the resting brain is unaware

so begins tonights nightmare

Subconscious thoughts creep to the fore

I cannot hide, there is no back door

Dark magic and death flash through my mind

there is no sanctuary that I can find

Surrounded by evil, a thousand to one

blankets of darkness, no light from a sun

I must be strong, cannot give in

this is a battle I have to win

Battered and bloody in a heap on a floor

my head in my hands I can take no more

shattered and wrecked, left for dead

only to find, I'm alone in my bed

It's in the past now. Learn from it. Go and get someone better.

If she is walking with her friends you could just walk in between them all and say something like "alright girls ?" and keep walking. This way you WILL be noticed. If you see her alone then just say "Hi" Depending on her reaction, you could start talking to her and casually ask if she is going to the party, if she's going with her friends or not. Then leave it as, "I'll see you there then" and smile.

Are you sure this girl has feelings for you. She may simply crave your attention and hate it whenever you talk to another female.

Do things together then. Just don't push it, let it happen on it's own. Enjoy each others company

As you are walking past her just try to have some confidence and say "Hi" & smile.( nothing fancy) Then next time you see her do the same or she may even speak to you first. It's not much but it is a start. Then you can work up to a full sentence. Take your time.

Hello, Firstly I have been married for about 15 years. There is no love here and hasn't been for a number of years. I first started talking to a woman in America, I'm in the UK, about two years ago. We 'clicked' straight away. We spent a lot of hours chatting, swopping pics, emails etc... nothing sleazy. We fell in love with each other. We shared a lot of emotions as we talked. We typed the same words constantly, finished each others sentences all that stuff that is supposed to happen to 'Soulmates'. She started working last year so we didn't talk as much. We still exchanged emails full of lovely words etc..I still received messages. I called her up early March and she was happy to hear from me and told me when the best time to phone was. She sent me a message telling me how much she loved me around the middle of March. A few weeks later I received a very 'cold' message saying that she was now married. That was it. All that time, I thought of her every day & night. I needed money to clear off my debt, mortgage an' stuff then I would have went over to be with her. She was the thought I clung to when everything else was falling apart. I had hope. I just didnt have money . Now she dropped this marriage bombshell on me. I have nothing left. I do realise I have to just carry on and put it behind me. But the feeling in the pit of my stomach refuses to go away.

It's not just men that do this. I ususally keep my defenses up always. A female got in eventually, and after two years of telling me she loved me more than anything, She sent me a message saying she was now married. Devastated would be an understatement.

Hello, Firstly I have been married for about 15 years. There is no love here and hasn't been for a number of years. I first started talking to a woman in America, I'm in the UK, about two years ago. We 'clicked' straight away. We spent a lot of hours chatting, swopping pics, emails etc... nothing sleazy. We fell in love with each other. We shared a lot of emotions as we talked. We typed the same words constantly, finished each others sentences all that stuff that is supposed to happen to 'Soulmates'. She started working last year so we didn't talk as much. We still exchanged emails full of lovely words etc..I still received messages. I called her up early March and she was happy to hear from me and told me when the best time to phone was. She sent me a message telling me how much she loved me around the middle of March. A few weeks later I received a very 'cold' message saying that she was now married. That was it. All that time, I thought of her every day & night. I needed money to clear off my debt, mortgage an' stuff then I would have went over to be with her. She was the thought I clung to when everything else was falling apart. I had hope. I just didnt have money Now she dropped this marriage bombshell on me. I have nothing left. I do realise I have to just carry on and put it behind me. But the feeling in the pit of my stomach refuses to go away.