trying to get back with my girlfriend who cheated on me

Me and my girlfriend were going out for 1 year and 7 mos, she has a child and i consider him my son but in reality i am not the birth father, the real father walked out on her, but i have been there with the child since he was born, he calls me daddy. I have spent everyday with her since we started going out and now our love for each other is lost because we got bored of each other. She slept with a friend of mine not for love, but her reason was he was providing her with better things like showing more love for her son and always helping her out. I feel that the more reason she cheated on me was because I would say I loved her son but my actions wouldn't prove that to her. I admit that if I loved her son and showed it that this probably wouldn't have happened. The funny thing is that she cheated on me but i am the one who wants to keep the relationship. We talked about everything and decided that in this break up if she feels that she does miss me honestly that we could give it a shot to get back again for the family's sake. She said that the guy she slept with she would never go out with him, to her it was just sex to get over stress but she tells me when they did it not even a minute went by and they both looked at each other and realized what they had done and stopped. She tells me that the guy feels really bad for what he did because he knows that I didn't deserve this. I want to try really hard to keep this relationship so I told her that everyday after i get off work i want to spend time with my son. I hope that in this time apart she realizes that she is not going to find another man like me, and that maybe i can prove to her now with my actions that i do love her son.

Please I ask anyone out there for any suggestion to help me get back with her, what should or shouldn't I do, please i really need help, this is all killing my soul.

I am not sure why you are so upset. If you want my honest opinion, I sense that you could do better. If you don't really love her son be honest with her. Maybe that other guy is a better bet or maybe he'll braak her heart the same as the father of the boy. If you don't have to raise another man's boy why would you even try? She made a big mistake getting pregnant with out marriage, now she had sex with one of your friends. How can you put up with this miserable treatment? How did your mom treat you when you were little? Even if your own mother slept around can't you break that cycle of behavior and find a good woman? Have a relationship, get married, work, have a baby! This is the correct way to plan for the future. Not get some girl who doesn't care about you, her child or her future to stay with you without any consequences. What are you thinking?

Komon Man! This is Krap to be sure! You NeedTo Fourget Aboutit already.

I beleve you may have lovee four this chyld. Buht Rhemember ..

Hell I fougot already. WAT Was tHys Subjict Abowt?