Is it ok how i proceed?

I'm laughing now that i'm reading the title lol but i rau need to ask this..I find it weird how many people love me and want to be around me and i have never done anything to attract anyone literally they come into my life..I love it but i'n afraid that if i don't give them much attention they ll walk away.Should i fear this or is it ok that i let people do whatever they want and offer them freedom.I am not stressful at all ,or when i fet jealous i dont let it show.I can also say I am a little selfish as long as i never have regrets if lets say a loved one walks out of my life but idk im starting to be afraid that if i dont start showing that i actually care about people they will leave me ??? idk Can i be the same as so far or change ?

You have no say on others' freedom.

And if you don't pay attention and nurture friendships and connections with others, yes --- they will leave.