benga Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 So what do women really think about while masturbating? I think we all know what the boys think about.... Would be good to hear from the girls ;-)... Cheers Link to comment
waveseer Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 Needing to be closer and closer (and closer and closer). Link to comment
Fionnuala Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 Usually fantasize about some guy I find attractive or a past particularly enjoyable sexual experience. Link to comment
faithful14 Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 I'm mostly in the moment, so I am thinking about my partner Link to comment
benga Posted September 1, 2009 Author Share Posted September 1, 2009 yeah, but like what? Thinking of being closer.... fantasizing what? Link to comment
waveseer Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 yeah, but like what? Thinking of being closer.... fantasizing what? I think you misunderstood. I meant having such a strong connection that it brings you closer and closer together, mentally, emotionally, physically. The whole enchalada. The sex part is an expression of that strong desire to be closer. What makes it a worthwhile fantasy for me is dreaming of being that connected to someone, not simply having sex. Link to comment
Effervescent Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 Before I met my ex, my mind use to be blank and I'd just focus on feeling. When I was with my ex, I would think of him and pretend it was him. After we broke up, I kept replaying the hottest romp we had before the breakup in my head. However, I realized that was counter-productive to my healing , so I've been trying to just focus on the sensations again. Link to comment
Fionnuala Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 yeah, but like what? Thinking of being closer.... fantasizing what? I don't know, a lot of times I'll just replay a previous sexual exprience in my head. I don't know how to describe what I fantasize. I fantasize about foreplay and having sex, what he's saying to me, him touching me, etc. I imagine it's pretty much the same thing a guy would fantasize about, except...I'm fantasizing about a guy. Link to comment
cleap24 Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 I think about my husband. I think about some of the best sex we've ever had and some of the special things he's done to me and thats what I fantasize about. Link to comment
gidget1 Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 Fantasies for sure During sex and masturbation. (Fantasies are generally things that turn me on for whatever reason but I wouldn't necessarily ever do - that's why they feel naughtier/hotter.) Link to comment
Xplode Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 I don't know, a lot of times I'll just replay a previous sexual exprience in my head. I don't know how to describe what I fantasize. I fantasize about foreplay and having sex, what he's saying to me, him touching me, etc. I imagine it's pretty much the same thing a guy would fantasize about, except...I'm fantasizing about a guy. roughly, what guys think about, but no offence, i have never though about my partner... not after 3 months of being together.? am i alone in this? but to me masterbation was thinking of things that reallly really turn you on. after the same thing a couple times need new thoughts. hence porn? Link to comment
Huzzah_89 Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 This is an interesting topic... Link to comment
ScorpiGal83 Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 I actually fantasise a lot about girls... I think about my favourite porn and I pretend I'm the guy giving it to the girl. Is this weird? I am not in any way homosexual. I am not against homosexuality - in fact, at one time I was hoping I was a lesbian - and have been through the whole 'bi-curious' stage in my late teens/early 20's, but I have to accept the fact that I am as straight as straight can be... But of course if I've had really good sex, I would replay that scenario in my head while masturbating... especially the look in his eyes, etc... not JUST the sex part. Link to comment
Tory Barton Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 roughly, what guys think about, but no offence, i have never though about my partner... not after 3 months of being together.? am i alone in this? but to me masterbation was thinking of things that reallly really turn you on. after the same thing a couple times need new thoughts. hence porn? I don't think any guys think about their partners. It's just us girls :sad: Be thankful you are a guy. Link to comment
valentino2003 Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 I fantasize about attractive, buff, men, but sometimes I tend to think about sexy woman in stilletoes. Depending on my mood, I will fantasize about either sex while masterbating, sometimes I prefer both sexes. Link to comment
Lonewing Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 I thought about my ex alot when I did...she had an incredible taste... I really was in love with her over the moon. Link to comment
Rosee Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 I don't normally put myself in my fantasies unless I'm thinking about an old boyfriend. I actually have quite involved fantasies featuring imaginary people with certain physical attributes, a bit like a porn movie in my head. I have several fantasies that I alternate and they always do it for me, usually involving group sex, anal sex or something but nothing too dodgy, lol, perhaps I'm unusual cause I'm not even in them, it's more like being the voyeur. Link to comment
bingedrinking Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 I actually fantasise a lot about girls... I think about my favourite porn and I pretend I'm the guy giving it to the girl. Is this weird? I am not in any way homosexual. I am not against homosexuality - in fact, at one time I was hoping I was a lesbian - and have been through the whole 'bi-curious' stage in my late teens/early 20's, but I have to accept the fact that I am as straight as straight can be... But of course if I've had really good sex, I would replay that scenario in my head while masturbating... especially the look in his eyes, etc... not JUST the sex part. Umm ok. Link to comment
benga Posted September 1, 2009 Author Share Posted September 1, 2009 You girls need anything specific to get yourself ready? Link to comment
JCR84 Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 Women probably think about the same thing as I do: MONEY. Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 sometimes I think about random things other times I'll replay times I had with my bf I use masturbation as a stress reliever and for pleasure so it depends on how I'm feeling Link to comment
sarahN Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 Taylor Lautner. Purrrr. Specifically the New Moon Trailer that just came out. I'm so intoxicated by that kid. Uhg, everything about him is so HOT! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 shoes and shopping. lol i'd imagine their man or some guy that turns them on just like us. unless they are into girls i guess. Link to comment
Delusional Kisses Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 I think about past sexual experiences, but I also fantasize about partners that I would NEVER have sex with...co-workers, friends, etc. LOL!. Link to comment
honest Posted October 21, 2013 Share Posted October 21, 2013 I think about my husband. I think about some of the best sex we've ever had and some of the special things he's done to me and thats what I fantasize about. interesting; just curious to know why is there a need to masterbate for a married person? please reply, if you dont mind; Link to comment
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