carl4 Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 Theirs this girl that talks to me in my class that I have a crush on, but whenever I talk to her, her arms are folded. Now is that a bad sign or a good sign. I can never seem to make I contact with her because she is so into the class. Link to comment
kskm Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 I usually have my arms crossed when I am thinking about something or when I am cold or uncomfortable..... if you like her why don't you just ask her out? Link to comment
blueangel Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 Dont think too far into it. For all you know, it could mean nothing. Pay attention to how she treats you instead. Body language can say a lot but it can be so easily mixed up. Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 I think when she does that she wants out. Crossing arms is a negative cue, for both male and female. But it is true, that it can be mistaken for being cold, etc. Link to comment
manr Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 it could be a comfort thing too. i do it all the time. Boos talks to me girls everyone. but yeah its cool. like they said wait to see what she does Link to comment
sidhat Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 first of all why you post this in SELF INJUURY forum.. and second is she is just waiting on you to call her out.. so do it as soon as posible .. otherwise she will keep her arms folded for you.. Good Luck.. Link to comment
ReadyorNot Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 I cross my arms if I am cold, OR if I am pissed off Link to comment
Mr. B Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 Crossed arms isn't the best signal per se, but i'd be more concerned about her tone of voice and facial expressions. Link to comment
Nick82087 Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 Personally, I see crossing arms as more of a neutral comfort thing. I cross my arms just because its more comfortable sometimes. I also think crossing the arms may be an attempt to make ones figure appear better. On a man, this will cause the pecs to flex, and on a woman it could make her upper body figure (you know what I mean) better or more developed. So, in my opinion, crossing the arms is not bad, generally speaking. It could be just for comfort, warmth, or to just look more built or something. So don't take her crossing arms sign as a bad thing, it could very well be good Link to comment
MyNinja Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 i would like to know the same thiing, why is this posted in the self injury forum?? About the arm-crossing thing. I read in an article that folding of the arms indicates disinterest, shyness, and insecurity to some extent, but that doesnt mean that this girl you're referring to is shy or uniterested in you. Like everyone else said, you should look at her facial guestures and tone of voice when she speaks to you. good luck Link to comment
goddess23 Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 k PERSONALLY i remember when in the flirting stage with my bf i would always be holding books infront of my chest or have my arms crossed. its just something i do when im nervous. cross my legs too even when im standing if im talking to someone i like! maybe because i think ill be tempted to just hug them if i dont! lol...look im just saying that if it was ME that you were talking to and i did that it would be a good sign. so look at other thigns to see if she likes you. Link to comment
BillyJean714 Posted May 13, 2005 Share Posted May 13, 2005 It depends..maybe she's petite and the room temp is cold. Sometimes, I cross my arms because it's hella cold, and I just can't help it. Link to comment
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