Fiffy, don't know what to tell you. Sometimes, being mad is a great way to get over a relationship. It's an easy way out for some which is why they try to find reasons to get mad. If I were you, I'd just get mad, find a way to assert yourself to him and let him know how you feel. I wouldn't act hurt, I'd just be straight and to the point. Then, no contact (even if he contacts you) and just move on.
As for me, I'm on day 9 of NC with my ex. Last communication was on plenty good terms, she said it would be best if I had minimum contact with her because it would be "easier" on me. I think that's a nice little facade to disguise her guilt and hurt over the decision. At any rate, I have my ups and downs, and I have been doing well with myself. Today, she got online for the first time in a month - at least. She stayed online for a good 30-45 minutes. For the first 15 or so I sat there and stared at her name, waiting for a message. I decided to go watch some TV to distract me, and if she messaged me and I missed it, oh well, she'll have to wait. I would like to assume she was doing something similar, but there's no way of knowing. She hardly ever gets on anymore, and near the end of the relationship the only reason she would get on is to talk to me. Either she turned on the computer and it logged her in automatically and she paid no attention - or - she was online to see if I would contact her but didn't want to be the initiator.
Any interpretations? Let's hear em!