FuelieVett

damn i'd hate to have you as a girlfriend you sound like you want to own your boyfriend and now you want to make him feel bad for being a guy? get real. guys look and you probably look too. if i were hi i would have broken up with you for being so damn nagging.

You asked for signs to look for the first and only think you need to look for is whether or not you like her. If the answer is no then forget it don't even consider asking her out. If the asnwer is yes, which I think it is, then just jump into it man ask her out. You shouldn't worry about if she likes you. If you wanna go out with her then you should just ask her out.

Listen up man. This is how it is. You gotta be happy being single. If you can't be happy being single, in otherwords being yourself, what makes you think any girl could be happy with you. I have your same problem. Well had your same problem. You just gotta be happy being you. If you are happy with being you then that crap about "standards too high" will go away. If you can be happy being you then you will have the confidence to ask out any girl whether super model or super brain because you will know, no matter what, you deserve who you desire. When you can be happy being single then it won't matter whether or not you have a girl at the moment. Now as for how to have this joy in being you you've gotta want to be happy first that's up to you, but try this. Remember you can have any girl you see and if she doesn't want you then you can do better than a girl who can't see how great you are. Sound conceded? Well thats right, but sounds to me like you've been too humble in your opion of yourself. Time to believe in yourself, and I mean really believe.