alboy
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A Guy feeling numb not stimulation, Orgasming isn't easy
alboy replied to final attack's topic in Sex and Romance
Maybe there's a way to correct the problem. Try not masterbating for a long time. -
How about not sleeping with the person right away?
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Pheromones are actually unscented. Sometimes they are added into colognes and advertised so they seem more appealing.
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Any chat site for when I'm feeling depressed?
alboy replied to alboy's topic in Emotions and Feelings
yeah. Sometimes I figure it would help talking 1 on 1 with someone online so he/she can get a full perspective of my problems and give me some insight. -
Djedix, How have you tried to change yourself? I don't know what's good or bad anymore. Did you still act sad around these new girls because of your ex fiancee or did you try to cover up those feelings?
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Any chat site for when I'm feeling depressed?
alboy replied to alboy's topic in Emotions and Feelings
Lonely and feeling like I don't know how to function as a human being anymore. -
Is there a chat site I can go to for when I'm feeling down and depressed?
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Thanks Caldus. I'm definitely stopping. But I just don't get it. I feel like I'm built wrong. And my whole belief system is shattered. If she was intentionally being hurtful then I'd have no problem. But its girls that hurt me but seem so nice because they didn't do anything intentially that drives me crazy because I feel like I should still care about their well being.
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I found out she likes some guy that calls hookers, hooks up with friends for booty calls and does drugs. Even though she told a friend that she doesn't like guys that smoke. This girl is 26 so she's not a immature high school kid. Go figure. I don't know what's right and wrong anymore.
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I met this girl who flirted with me twice on two separate occasision. Both times she had a bit to drink. Since she drank a lot I didn't think too much about the first time. But the other time she kissed me on the cheek and said she thought I was cute. So I tried asking her out and 90% of the time she would say yes but there was an excuse at the end of the day to cancel. It could be she had to work late or she was tired or even she needed to finish laundry. I would think she's not interested but why would she agree to go on the first place? I did manage to go out with her twice and everything seemed fine. More and more I'm thinking I should stop asking her out since it might make me seem desperate. If she's not interested anymore, how did I turn her off away so easily? I'm absolutely sure I didn't do anything wrong. Maybe I should take it easy and just hang out with her more in a group setting? Or is there anyway I can help her resume the attraction. I'm completely lost and confused in this dating game. Oh and we're in our mid twenties so it may not be so likely she's into immature games.
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Hi Rhonda, I haven't had a girlfriend in a LONG time. I go on date once every blue moon but the ones I like don't like me back and the ones that like me I'm not happy with. On occasion I find someone I like that actually likes me back she loses interest easily. I can't figure out what's wrong with me. I'm easy going, never offensive, clean, and polite. Could there be something off with my mannerisms that's subconsciously turning women away? Do I have bad pheromones? I can be a little shy but I do talk on dates. Its come to the point that I believe there's something about me that women are subconscously lose passion or become unattractive to. Help!
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Of course girls fully want a nice guy. Girls won't say they want some guy to treat them like dirt. They just don't realize that's what they gravitate towards to. And sometimes they still fall for them and you wonder why. And other girls would think that they'll never be that dumb to fall for such a jerk. Because those girls who fall for the jerk are normal people too and originally didn't think it would happen to them either.
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Recently a friend told me she stayed at her ex's place one night because it was too late to drive home. Well the guy's on/off girl that he's been seeing rings the door and since my friend doesn't want to cause trouble she hides in the bathroom. My friend was really in love with this guy and now she's realizing what a jerk he is. She's a smart girl yet how come she couldn't see through this guy when they were together? It really upsets me that this is how things work and that us humans are such victims to our emotions. Its beautiful and idealistic to believe the nice guy will win in the end. But its just not going to happen. And I don't believe nice guys to be wusses. Its the fact that they put themselves out there so much because they care for the girl and her well being. But as many of you said, perhaps its not the way to be that nice. Its feels a bit selfish to live in a world like this but I guess we have to look out for #1, ourselves.
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I hate this. I'm tired of being the guy the shoulder to cry on while the girl weeps abount some other guy. That has to be one of the worst feelings in the world. Why am I always that guy? The first few times we've hung out she showed that she was interested in me. So I ask her out a few times and we got along great although I can tell she feels a bit distant but I didn;t know why. Later after she saw an ex of hers in the street, she later cried hysterically after a few drinks. She told me she was sorry and was embarrassed. But she also told me that she still liked him. After she sobered up she was embarrassed. I don't know what this all means. Obviously she's not ready but I wonder if she even likes me. And even if she does, could it ever progress? The nice guy with the shoulder always gets passed by. I'm glad to be able to make someone feel better but this feeling of hearing someone you care about talk about someone else just weighs so heavily.
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I'm trying not to keep my hopes too high. I understand she may not feel the same way. I just want her to leave that door open between us. I'll take your advice and enjoy the time we're together. Although I might lay the flirt on here and there and see how it goes.