SamiGirl68

I sometimes feel like hes doing in on purpose.. but I KNOW he isn't.. He changed his ways about what he said to me when we got in a fight.. but he wont change his ways about talking to other women.. I guess thats my fault.. His attitude to me, is one full of love.. and sorryness for the fight. but not sorry about the whole girl issue.. When I am with him.. I feel soooo in love.. and ALL the jelousy goes away.. and it seems the world is PERFECT!! I feel he totally respects me.. more then anyone else has ever respected me..

..I'm young and in love. and its great.. Just take a chance.. find a guy, you might like... and see if things work out!! You never know they just might.. and If you hear about him and another girl, IGNORE IT!! Just think of all the other great guys there are out there for you!!!

..I think she will pull away from a guy.. I know I would.. I am in the middle of a VERY confused relationship.. and I know if it ends.. since we hace spent so much time, and are so commited to each other.. that. I could never trust anyone for a long time.. and I would pull away from another man

for me.. beuty is 100% in the eye of the beholder.. But I am a girl.. lol.. All my friends, are so shallow.. All they want in a guy is looks.. and to tell you the truth.. they didn't want me seeing the guy i feel in love with.. and I am still with him.. its been over a year.. and we are totally commited.. and to me.. beuty is the way someone is.. how they act, and how they are.. my advice is.. dont worry about how other people think someone is.. get to know them by how they are!! ..the ugliest person.. could just be the one you were made for!

First of all thanks for reading this everyone.. Well let me let you in on everything.. then I'll got my questions for you to answer.. I'll try to keep it short.. I have been with my boyfriend for a little bit over a year.. and its been a great year.. Well except for the fact that I get jelous over EVERY little thing.. its unreal.. If he talks to me about another girl.. I get soooo jelous.. Well it just happens that a few days ago.. he started giving my friend advice online.. and he "owed her a hug" and he was calling himself her "big brother" and all those little things bothered me.. and then he said he owed her a hug.. cause all the help or whatever.. and he does give great advice.. I meet him threw this friend.. she talked to him online, and gave me his sn to talk to him.. well anyways he never hugged her but he kept going up to her, saying "you owe me a hug" and he said this 2 days in a row.. and it got me soooo mad.. so I told him.. and he basically told me he was sick of this whole jelousy thing.. ..We got in a huge fight and almost broke up.. and he hurt me... a lot.. saying he loves me.. but he doesn't know if we are in love.. (I am his first real girlfriend, he only had one and he never meet her.. a cyber deal.. He lost "it" to me.. and I was the first girl he ever kissed) Well I need to get over this jelousy!! Thats most of the story.. Its hard to type your life out!! Now questions.. 1. Whats YOUR opinion of this? 2. How can I stop being jelous over everything? 3. How can I forgive him, for the things he said when we got in a fight? 4. any other thing you want to say

Me and my boyfriend are about the same age difference as you too. My bofried started fingering me, about.. *wow* 3 or 4 months ago.. Pretty much it stared like this.. We were laying on a couch just making out.. pretty heavily though.. and he had the "I'm thinking about something" look in his eyes.. So I asked him what he was thinking? an he told me it was nothing that I would want to know. and I tod him to tell me. and he said, "alright.. actions speek louder then words" Then very gently he started putting his hand in the back of my pants (nothing new) and he said well I always play with you back here.. But I alwayswanted to play with you here... and he moved his hand to the front of my pants.. and started fingering me.. and OMG.. It is increible how GOOD it feels.. Then about a week later we were sitting there and he says I need to get up.. and he tells me that sometimes he just can't control myself.. and he started talking to me wanting to make sure when he did it was okay, and that I enjoyed it. So that made me feel better. and another tip is.. do it some place somewhat private.. cause girls wil worrie about gettng caught. and make sure you have at least a 1/2 hour just to hang out afterwords so it doesnt feel so acword. One last tip, if you 2 are at a strong point in your relationship try it naked. Take each others clothes off.. that makes it so much better. But make sure you leave your boxers on.. lol Thats my advice/little story.. God luck