bostonsfinest2 Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 We broke up 10 months ago, we've been in and off. I would always break NC but I ve been 3 weeks strong! She sent me this email and I'm not sure why.I didn't answer but was wondering your thoughts on it. "bad weather up north.Hope your family is OK in the weather I'm hearing of, if they aren't already here with you for Thanksgiving. BSIAW(be safe in all ways). Hope all is well." Link to comment
CraigHowes Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 It means nothing is just a pointless breadcrumb of information. Delete it and stay no contact your only delaying your healing by having attachment with this person. Link to comment
floridasfinest Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 Delete and forget. Now. Do not let this breadcrumb give you false hope. Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted November 28, 2014 Author Share Posted November 28, 2014 Delete and forget. Now. Do not let this breadcrumb give you false hope. Hey I like your name! I'm in Florida now too! This was sent 3 days ago with no intention of answering.Just trying to understand her thought process. Link to comment
CraigHowes Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 It's called fishing, she is sending out a line to see if she gets a bite. Then if does she is going to send it back into the pond. Basically she sent it to get a hit that your still there and it's nothing more. Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted November 28, 2014 Author Share Posted November 28, 2014 Lol well she's starving.she ain't catching me! Link to comment
NICEMAN99 Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 Move to trash can ? HELL YEAH!! I too got an empty email from ex 2 days ago. I'm pretty sure she was fishing and waiting for me to send an "?" I just delet it ..... I'm more then ever commited to HEAL. And so should you Link to comment
larthur1 Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 Unless my ex sends a message along the lines of wanting to talk about us, Ill never respond to pointless messages again. Damn I wish I would have come on here before! I did everything wrong. Ignore! She's trying to recreate a link because she's feeling vulnerable, things aren't so green in pastures new I imagine...*cough* karma *cough* (totally presuming she left you btw) Link to comment
bostonsfinest2 Posted November 28, 2014 Author Share Posted November 28, 2014 Yeah she left me but I don't blame here. I wasn't in the mind frame at the time and wasn't a very good boyfriend.but let's say it was a blessing and I've matured a lot since then. Link to comment
floridasfinest Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 I took my break up pretty hard in the beginning, but now im realizing how much better off I am without her. The last time I saw her, she told me all this crap like she still loves me, god put us together for a reason blah blah blah....what a load of crap. People just don't take responsibility for their actions nowadays. I dont respond to anything she sends me. Good luck Link to comment
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