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    hand job/ blow job whilst not erect...?

    Hey ppl jsu a question: if the guy isnt erect and the female started stimulalating his penis would the guy more then likely get an erection? And how could you tell the difference between an erect one and a non erect one if u held it? Cheers guys xxxxxxxxxxxx
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    An erect one is not flimsy. When a man isn't erect, the penis retracts and become very small. You would definitely be able to tell the difference.
    Average unerect penis length: 2-4 inches
    Average erect penis length: 5-7 inches
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    yes...much more likely to become erect with stimulation.

    The difference is that erect, it is hard and "stands up." You will definitely be able to tell!
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    I like to go for the squish factor

    lots of squish= flacid
    medium squish= chubby
    no squish= erect

    also, gently squishing can feel good, but ask your guy first. (remember gentle, it's fun to play with but it's not a toy)

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    An unerect penis will be droopy. When he is erect which trust me he will be with you giving him a hand/blow job his penis will stand up and be hard. The foreskin will be taught (if he has any).

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    Trust me, you'll know the difference. If he's flaccid when you start playing with it, chances are it won't be for long. You'll probably enjoy making it hard! I've known a lot of girls who were completely fascinated with how it goes from soft to hard, so have fun with it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Majoraslayer View Post
    Trust me, you'll know the difference. If he's flaccid when you start playing with it, chances are it won't be for long. You'll probably enjoy making it hard! I've known a lot of girls who were completely fascinated with how it goes from soft to hard, so have fun with it!
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