cpc28655 Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Well, my divorce is actually finalized. After 18 months of interstate battles. (I am in North Carolina, It is in Texas) Now that it is finally over, I am stuck with the question, "Now what do I do?" So, now what do I do? Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 lol. now what? well. I would say you should maybe do something to "commemmerate" this occasion. is there something you have been wanting to do? a weekend trip or something? Maybe even just get dinner with a friend, order the most expensive bottle of wine on the list, and just have a mini-"it's over" party, if that makes sense. i mean, people commemmerate birthdays, weddings, I don't see why divorces should be different. can help you get closure, maybe? Link to comment
lostNspace Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 I've celebrated not only my divorce date every year, but also the date that I filed. Take it easy, go slow, don't get sucked into the rebound thing. It's not fair to you and certainly not to the other person. Link to comment
cpc28655 Posted May 11, 2007 Author Share Posted May 11, 2007 Does shooting holes through the marriage certificate with a 10mm count? Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 LOL, sure, if that helps you, go for it Link to comment
cpc28655 Posted May 11, 2007 Author Share Posted May 11, 2007 LMAO, did that 3 months ago. By the way, a mini party? Oh no. There is going to be a party, but it's not going to be mini. Link to comment
Kalika Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 OK, no mini parties.. But as to the question, "What do I do?" The same thing you did yesterday, and the day before... but not the day you got married lol.. Hope it's a kickin' party! Don't do anyone you'll regret in the morning ](*,) Link to comment
Dako Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 Assign a good friend to use that 10 if you ever mention marriage again. My buddy promised to dispatch me humanely if I falter. Link to comment
dada Posted May 11, 2007 Share Posted May 11, 2007 So, now what do I do? Live, but not necessarily in this order. Learn to listen better. Become better at your job. Call your Mom & Dad daily. Work out, not to look better, but to feel better. Eat the best foods available for your body. Laugh at yourself. Laugh out aloud when something is funny. If you have a gf, tell her you love her, but only if you do. Don't lie, don't cheat. Take your sister to a movie, let her bf know you are there to protect her. Hang out with your friends. Wish your exwife the best in the future. And mean it. Go to Church, a Church where you can learn something. Set short and long range goals. Enjoy your time on this planet and cause no intentional harm to on one. In the event you do, apologize. dada Link to comment
cpc28655 Posted May 11, 2007 Author Share Posted May 11, 2007 Like I said in another post, I would rather have my appendix put back in then get married again. If I am going to go through that much pain, I insist on doing it to myself. Oprah calls that empowerment. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 12, 2007 Share Posted May 12, 2007 yay oprah! that's the spirit hey - well, just try to have fun now, take care of you. we're all invited to your big party, right? Link to comment
cpc28655 Posted May 13, 2007 Author Share Posted May 13, 2007 yay oprah! that's the spirit hey - well, just try to have fun now, take care of you. we're all invited to your big party, right? Always, Link to comment
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