My Best Friend.. again

[rowan wood]

Hi Dau

 

Was that a serious question about the affectionate laughing or were you just teasing me?

 

Anyway what I meant was sometimes when I am trying to figure stuff out, and maybe not doing so well, and mabye going backwards and forwards a bit, and maybe confusing or annoying other people because I can't get it sorted out, one of the things that bothers me the most is that it might be really upsetting for other people around me who I care about.

 

So when they laugh at me (affectionately) it is like they are saying they are not bothered or stressed by what I am doing and it is kind of OK for me to be confused and unsure. It gives me one less worry, so I can be a bit more relaxed and not stress about hurting them. Also it is nice when people laugh because they have noticed me and paid attention to me, and they clearly enjoy being around me.

 

i hope this makes sense.

[Dau]

I guess I understand, it just seems kinda random. You mean having a friend laugh off seemingly silly actions?