She wants me a little but doesn't need me at all

[ghost69]

don't get too drunk. she can take advantage and make you have a kid with her.

[SummerGirl38]

I am guilty of the same exact thing.

 

1. I say it because I want my b/f to know I am not his ex wife (who has never had a job) used him to support "her" kids and then replaced him with another guy.

 

2. The fact that my ex husband used to tell me that I wouldn't be sh*t without him and his money when I had decided to leave him.

 

Fact #2 really screwed my head up and I wondered at one time if he was right.

 

Yes, I struggled but I learned that yes, I can take care of myself and I don't need to put up with b.s.

 

This is the greatest gift my ex gave me, "My own self esteem".

[ghost69]

taking care of yourself is always the best way