Confess All?

[Prenkle]

I started having feelings for this guy and have contemplated telling him how I feel? But is this wise? I feel like I would be putting myself out there, handing myself over on a silver platter and opening myself up for hurt. He has dropped hints that he likes me but I am not really sure.

 

I've been wishing that he would confess how he feels before I do. But what if he never says anything?

 

Do I say something or not? Does the fact that he doesn't say anything means he feels nothing for me? Do I want to be with a guy who doesn't even have the courage to tell me he wants me? Would any girl want a guy like that?

[BetterKarma]

Hi Prenkle,

 

Which guy are you referring to: the 29 year old or the 40? My answer would differ based off of your answer.

[Prenkle]

I'm referring to the older mid 40s guy.