Total change in behavior

[Celadon]

Hi all. A friend of mine has totally changed his behavior toward me and it frustrates me not knowing what's going on. I don't know if I should reach out to him or give him space.

 

We were friends before, while he was going out with his gf. They broke up, then he tried to rebound into a relationship with me, but I told him I wanted to stay friends. (Definitely didn't want to get into the mess of him going straight into another relationship.)

 

He said he was okay with that, and he SEEMED okay with that, but now it's a month or so later and he's dropped contact with me. I just emailed him this week and haven't heard from him. What gets me is that we really were friends before, and he SAID he valued our friendship and didn't want to lose that.

 

So I don't know if I should try to contact him again to say "Hey how's it going?" or let him be for awhile. What would you do?

[Alabama]

He is going through a time with his relationship break-up, I suggest just let him be for now. Time heals all wounds, after all.

[Celadon]

Thanks for the reply, Alabama. I'll let him be for awhile.