what the heck is up with this

[revelation27]

ok i make it brief we werent arguing been together for a while both grown adults...i had flowers delivered to her yesterday and she hasnt called me or anything about em.....even tried to call her a few times, even left a voicemail saying call me its important....what the heck?

[lady00]

Not knowing the full extent of what's going on...I'd say that she may need some time to "cool off" and might just want to be left alone for the moment. She will probably contact you/respond to your contacts soon though. I'd say to just leave it alone for now since you have called several times and left her a message. The ball is in her court.

[savoie]

not enough information. but is it possible she is out of town?

[revelation27]

no she isnt out of town i know that for sure i have to pass her house on my way home from work and her car was gone this morning and back this evening

[savoie]

well i scanned your previous posts about this relationship. sorry - i am new here. how have things been between the two of you the last few weeks?

[revelation27]

things have been really good last couple of weeks since we got back together....we hung out together all day wed and night departed company around 10pm we had a long day made plans for the weekend and etc but she said something troubling said i dont wanna be in a relationship where i feel commited to have to do something every weekend.....so i tried to talk to her about it thursday evening but she said she is stressed out and doesnt wanna get into it think i may have aggrovated her because i tried to push her to talk and i told her look i just wanna communicate so this can work this time but it never happened

[savoie]

well - i would give her some space. she doesn't sound clear in what she wants right now. i understand your frustration - but she knows what you want.

 

i know it is hard to wait to hear something from her - but if your reasons for sending the flowers were to evoke an immediate response she might feel manipulated - since she told you she was stressed and needed a weekend off.

 

if she is not a total thoughtless person - she will call and thank you in her own time. she did tell you she wanted the weekend right?

[revelation27]

no she never said that actually we had plans last nite but never talked to her.....this woman has became very confusing today would be 1 yr that we been together and well she wont answer the phone\

[anggrace]

Stop driving by and calling her. It sounds like she's either feeling suffocated or mabey she just hasn't gotten around to calling yet.

[revelation27]

well she finally called me today and broke up with me guess i wasnt good enuff