loving and in-law

[Teulada]

I am in love with my husband's brother. I think he is in love with me. We cannot stop looking at each other and are always trying to be around each other.

I reallly feel awful

[melrich]

I guess you know it's a recipe for disaster. Avoid him where you can and don't ever allow yourself to be in a situation where you are alone with each other.

 

If your marriage is not working focus on that and make your goal be to get that sorted one way or the other.

[coollady1957]

How is it that you know you are in love with your brother in law? You love your husband, right ? Even though you didnt ask for advice,,,,,I would say limit your contact with your brother in law and focus on working on your marriage.

[coollady1957]

Melrich, sorry it almost looked like I copied your advice. I guess I was typing mine about the time you posted yours ......

[melrich]

That's cool...there's not much else we could say.

[kate111]

Don't go there.

[baddasslegend92]

wow!!!thats ummm wow!!

[santh2007]

Love your husband and stop lusting after your brother in law. Stay away from him, move to a place where he wont be there. Do whatever, but just focus on your husband and your marriage.

What you are doing/or will happen if you continue this, will only be disaster.

Control your urges and your senses.

[i1dr]

I feel bad for you. It's not possible to control who we will fall for but try to examine what you like about him and the situation - just in case you decide that it is based on things that are not directly about him. (like danger etc) that may help you make a choice that is not going to blow up in your face as likely as this may.

[treefrogkate]

This is probably going to come out very harsh, but no good can come of a relationship between you and your husband's brother. Not only will it break up your marriage, but also very likely you'll break up his family in the process.

 

Maybe you are reading things into your brother-in-law's behavior that aren't there because it's exciting to build up the fantasy.

 

You should talk to your husband and try to figure out what is missing in your relationship that is causing you to think this way. People in happy relationships don't fall in "love" with other poeple, especially not their partner's relatives.

[radioheader]

that's rough...get into counseling if you can and figure out why you are attracted to him and not your husband...you have to stay away and figure this out b/f either one of you act on it...it will be a disaster if you act on it! good luck and get help to figure this out...asap!