Mythical_Suicide Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 Actions alone cannot conclude if someone is gay or not. Link to comment
isisastaria Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 Yes, I think he has an inclination. Are you a woman with male energy or characteristics (I.E...tomboy?) Some couples can switch the yin and yang around between them. You need to do more snooping because he will never admit it Link to comment
isisastaria Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 Just Be Sure To Be Gentle And Loving!! This Could Be A Seriously Devestating Issue To Him Considering His Upbringing!!! Link to comment
rocketgirl30 Posted February 18, 2007 Author Share Posted February 18, 2007 I am a jock-I play sports and he is more of an indoor guy. But, I am fairly passive. I think sometimes I don't give him a chance to treat me or take care of me. Link to comment
rocketgirl30 Posted February 18, 2007 Author Share Posted February 18, 2007 Just Be Sure To Be Gentle And Loving!! This Could Be A Seriously Devestating Issue To Him Considering His Upbringing!!! Good point. I'm not sure he is really ready to admit it to himself either. I'm thinking about ending it with him---regardless of his sexuality, it seems like he doesn't want a deeper commitment and I do. I would definitely be there for him with full support if he came out. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 I am a jock-I play sports and he is more of an indoor guy. But, I am fairly passive. I think sometimes I don't give him a chance to treat me or take care of me. Not tryin to attack you and please please do not take offense to this but you assuming he's gay because he's "feminine" is like me asking if you're a lesbian because youre a "jock". Right? Link to comment
isisastaria Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 I think that was just in response to the question I posted about male and female energies between couples. Sometimes they switch back and forth and it doesn't have anything to do with being gay. Link to comment
rocketgirl30 Posted February 18, 2007 Author Share Posted February 18, 2007 Not tryin to attack you and please please do not take offense to this but you assuming he's gay because he's "feminine" is like me asking if you're a lesbian because youre a "jock". Right? I think you are focusing too much on the point I make about "general behavior" which I do qualify by suggestng that these are all sterotypical things. Based on the general behavior alone, NO(!), I would not suspect he was gay or bisexual...In fact, I am very attracted to his feminin traits. The reason for the suspicisions lies in his sexual behavior, his past relationships (or lack there of with women), and the fact that I found he has been exploring this issues on his computer. I think you are really simplyfing the whole picture I have presented. Link to comment
rocketgirl30 Posted February 18, 2007 Author Share Posted February 18, 2007 Not tryin to attack you and please please do not take offense to this but you assuming he's gay because he's "feminine" is like me asking if you're a lesbian because youre a "jock". Right? I think that was just in response to the question I posted about male and female energies between couples. Sometimes they switch back and forth and it doesn't have anything to do with being gay. Yes, I understand that...sometimes I am passive and other times I take the lead. I have read the book "Getting to I Do" and understand that it can be confusing when someone switches between energies. Link to comment
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