More domminant sex

[sweetheart607]

I have quite a high sex drive and thank god so does my guy so even tho we're in a ldr it's awesome. i am up for everything and we are always trying new things however within the relationship i am not very good at being assertive i worry about being rejected isn't that mad cos he loves me and loves sex with me but yet i find it hard to take control in our sex life. Any ideas of things i could do as i think he'd like it, if once in a while i was more dessive and assertive.

 

Thoughts and ideas would be appreciated

[Grosse vache]

Tie him up.

 

Ravish him as fast or as slow as you want.

[kevin_18]

If the very sight of him turns you on; When you're with him and he doesn't suspect it, grab him round the waist and make out with him and/or go down on him taking his out and putting it in your mouth while forcefully feeling him up whatever you do. Or put your hands up his shirt or down his trowsers and take off his clothes then throw him on the bed and climb ontop of him ect.

You can't get much more assertive than that.

[Hubbys_glitter_is_gold]

i agree with everyone else.. Thats about the best you can get at it. Im in a similar situation but its the other way around and im trying to get him into BDSM...its working, slowly but surely....lol

[4GiveAnd4Get]

Sex is assertion on steriods. A woman that is assertive and decisive in bed (or out of bed ) is a real turn on for alot of guys.

 

Just do what you do best and NEVER question yourself.

[zerohalo]

Just do what you do best and NEVER question yourself.

There is nothing hotter than a woman who does what she needs to get herself off and makes no apologies for it. Sadly that doesn't seem to be the case for guys, but oh well.