trouble being attracted and staying 'hard'

[LostInSorrow]

Yeah, another one of these. It seems like some of the pills I've been taking have taken down my sex drive a notch, but thats not the big problem. I can get off to porn easy, but most of the time I can't even stay hard enough to go in her properly. I love her a ton and wouldn't even consider leaving her because of this, its just so embarrassing and kinda sucks. I actually went through 10 condoms in a few days, and only came once. And I still feel really horny and shes even my first to take away my 'innocence'. I want to pleasure her, and it'd be nice to get some pleasure too

 

Any tips at all? I've noticed I try too hard, and I'm too focused on staying hard and not on whats happening. I really don't want her to feel like its her fault and I can't think of any more excuses

 

thanks a lot.

[rosstheboss]

Sounds like you are in fact trying too hard and worrying about what might go wrong. You need to relax and stop putting presure on yourself to do better.

Its not easy but try to enjoy what you are doing right.

[TiredMan]

Are you taking some sort of anti-depressant? These tend to give you this problem.

[g1234567890h]

It depends on what kind of pills you're on. If you're on antidepressants one of the side effects is decreased sex drive and sexual performance. Look up the side effects and tell your doctor or psychaitrist because they can help you with that.

[LostInSorrow]

I am on antidepressants, but I didn't think they could really help with that. Awesome, thanks everyone. Luckily enough, I have an appointment for tomorrow.

 

Its such a simple answer and I didn't even think of it

 

thanks again

[TiredMan]

The good news is when you get off them, it'll pop right back up. It's usually not a permanent situation.