saberman3000 Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 Ok, So here is the deal. This one relates to my ex-gf. We broke off after 4 years together. It was a LDR and I maintained it for 4 years. I have met her many times on my trip back home and we did spend some quality time together. I called her up everyday, never let her feel alone, always comforted her... She went behind my back and started going around with another guy but did not tell me about him. I had to coax the information out of her. After a string of talks, I decided to call it quits and stopped talking to her. She continued to email me, send me IM's and wanted to be my "friend". I told her I cannot be your "friend" because I was in a relationship with you. I wanted to marry her the next time I saw her and was so ready and driven to get it done that that heartbreak was too overbearing... I started drinking more, smoking more...but life moved on and I found someone soon after. I remained faithful the entire time I was away (and thats true). I continued to ignore her, and whenever she called, I abused her. Because in my mind, I did nothing wrong!!! I comforted her, I called her, I wanted to get married to her yet she broke my heart with pinpoint accuracy. And then she called and tried to be all friendly. Previously, when I asked her whether she was having sex with this guy, she said that its not easy for her to have sex with anyone. This time, when I asked about it, she confessed that she was having sex but still wanted me because she cared about me and is not totally over me. I was her first one BTW. I mean, what is this girl thinking? She wants to have sex with 10 guys and still have me in her life? WHY? and why do I feel so miserable over my EX? How do I eliminate her from my life and thoughts? Quote Link to comment
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