evans Posted January 22, 2007 Share Posted January 22, 2007 Wow 5 months have past since my EX girlfriend dumped me...!! heres a update on my story, my Ex finished with me after 4 years, 5 months ago, i went down th route of trying to get back with her for a month, anway i aint spoke to her for about 3 1/2 months.... BUT she still tries making contact with me, she sent a christmas card to me, and a personal txt message on new years eve, i have seen her a few times but avoided her.. Anyway this morning, i signed on MSN (aint signed on for months) and i get a message, 'Why are'nt you talking to me' of the Ex.... I just ignored the message, an thinking why do you think.... Why does she wanna speak to me, and knowing full well that im seeing someone new... (so is she) Link to comment
Mr Mister1 Posted January 22, 2007 Share Posted January 22, 2007 There's only one way to really find out why she wants to talk to you. Also why are you so determined to not talk to her? I know the NC rule is preached here but by the sounds of it you've moved on from her, what harm could come from just hearing her out and seeing what she has to say? Link to comment
evans Posted January 22, 2007 Author Share Posted January 22, 2007 i Have no interest in her... she broke me and left me realing, i dont think she will ever realize what she did to me... thats why i dont want to speak/see her...! Link to comment
jusified Posted January 22, 2007 Share Posted January 22, 2007 agree with evans, At lest she could apologies and explain her self. Then it is up to Evans to decide wheather or not he wants to talk to her back. So evans, if you are over her and dont want to talk to her due to the pain she caused you, you have every right. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted January 22, 2007 Share Posted January 22, 2007 It seems the girl isn't getting it. Sometimes even the dumper doesn't realize what they are doing. They dump - but don't really mean it. Or they dump as a strategy (a crappy one indeed!) to try and get the other person to change. Or it could just be that she now needs you to be her emotional tampon. A little self absorbed. If she continues with this, you could always send her a short message that is firm. "I do not answer you back because you broke up with me. I don't want to hear from you. Please stop contacting me. Thanks." Use your own words. This will work unless the person is truly delusional. Good job by the way! Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now