magikal Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Me and my bf have just started having sex. I was his first whereras i have had a few other partners and i've noticed that instead of jumping on top of me gagging for it like the other guys i've been with he just kind of lays their and expects me to do everything. Does anyone no why? Thanx x x x Link to comment
constantine Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 He's probably nervous and doesn't know what to do. Link to comment
shikashika Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 I've been with guys who just aren't into it.. there is this myth out there that boys want sex more than girls but in my experience that is not true.. Maybe he's not turned on by what you do? ask him or he could just be a lazy guy who's always had girls do things for him and has never had to put effort in anything in his life Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Me and my bf have just started having sex. I was his first whereras i have had a few other partners and i've noticed that instead of jumping on top of me gagging for it like the other guys i've been with he just kind of lays their and expects me to do everything. Does anyone no why? Thanx x x x Well lol. It's usually the other way around. He might just be laid back. Not all guys are how you described. Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 or he could just be a lazy guy who's always had girls do things for him and has never had to put effort in anything in his life But the fact that she is expecting HIM to jump on her, isn't she being lazy herself? Link to comment
The Vitruvian Man Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 I think he might be nervous, considering you're his first. He might not really know what to do or what he should do. So I would ask him what turns him on, and then incorporate that into your sex. Link to comment
shikashika Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 But the fact that she is expecting HIM to jump on her, isn't she being lazy herself? maybe... but sounds like she's doing SOME work they are quite young... maybe just inexperienced.. which isn't a bad thing. magikal.. wh at about telling him " I like it when you do this or when you do that' Link to comment
anggrace Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Yes, they are young! whew! Im sure that has alot to do with it. Just be carefull to not critasize his lack of technique. Im sure hes insecure as it is, being his first time. Are you sure he really wants to be doing it? Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 maybe... but sounds like she's doing SOME work they are quite young... maybe just inexperienced.. which isn't a bad thing. I don't get that vibe. She said herself she is expecting him to jump on her like other guys have. Some people are just like this. Many women out there just lay there and expect the guy to do it and it's considered "normal" rather than "not attracted to me or lazy". Link to comment
magikal Posted January 3, 2007 Author Share Posted January 3, 2007 I'm not expecting him to all ways just jump on me Tiredman ..it's just after awhile of me doin all th work it would be nice x Link to comment
TiredMan Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 I'm not expecting him to all ways just jump on me Tiredman ..it's just after awhile of me doin all th work it would be nice x You said "I've noticed that instead of jumping on top of me gagging for it like the other guys i've been" Not all guys are the same, is my point. Link to comment
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