Feeling sad

[Lovely2400]

Hi there..am struggling with my emotions right now. been dumped so sudden, one day all ok the next he won't speak to me..as if I never existed. I'm heartbroken I think about him all the time even when I am keeping myself busy, he is always on my mind. I hurt so much..will it get better??

[Ellie2006]

Hi Lovely2400,

 

Welcome to Enotalone.

I am sorry to hear that you're hurting right now.

 

I think it's good that you're keeping yourself busy.

If the break-up was recent, it is natural that your ex is still on your mind.

BUT I truly believe time heals all wounds.

 

Please hang in there and know that we're here to help in any way we can.

 

Take care of yourself and please be extra kind to yourself while you heal.

 

Best wishes to you,

Ellie

[Shaker]

Lovely2400,

 

The good news: it gets better.

 

The bad news for a while.

 

The middle ground: although he's probably mostly thinking about his needs and wants right now, I'm sure he's struggling too.

 

You're on the right track. Keep busy, and remember that the more time you think about him, the less time you have to take care of yourself. Put yourself first now.

[JustYourAverageGirl]

i've been there many times. it hurts so much for the first few weeks/months. but trust me, it will get better. but remember to maintain and NO CONTACT. if i would have done that with my first few ex's then i would be so much more....happier

[Aschleigh]

That's sad. No warning, nothing. It's not you at all probably. He can't deal with whatever is going on with him so he pushes it away. It isn't very mature to not even talk about a break up. If this is how he treats you, you are better off without him.