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Oh ok. In that case, yes I would email him and see what happens.


I have been in that exact situation before, more than 15 years ago, and sometimes I still wonder what would have happened if I had just made the first move and asked her out when I found out she was quitting (we both had rules about not dating people we worked with at the time).


Nothing ventured, nothing gained. But if you don't try, you might keep wondering what could have been.

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I'd go for it!


At least try dating but take it slow... very slow... just because you worked in the same place doesn't mean you really know someone. Some people are totally different outside of work.


I did it and don't reget it but it was hard and things aren't going too well now...


The only hesitation from his side could be if you hang out with other people from his work he could worry what if things go bad between you... Can he trust that you will not to tell people things he doesn't want to be publicly known in his workplace.


Try not to talk about "work politics" or "work gossip" and it will be fine.


Good luck!

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