Just wondering..

[crazy300]

thanks, lets see what destiny has in store for me.

[dnozzle]

I'd respond. Why not? You know she likes you and you obviously like her. Why be so shy about it? Just ask her out. She will say yes.

[crazy300]

I'd respond. Why not? You know she likes you and you obviously like her. Why be so shy about it? Just ask her out. She will say yes.

 

 

Im the girl here...lol

[silentalways]

i wouldn't do that in the first place - u go to work to work not hit on someone. i don't have time for high school stuff like that - job is way too important to be chatting up some tart in the office.

[dnozzle]

Oh ok. In that case, yes I would email him and see what happens.

 

I have been in that exact situation before, more than 15 years ago, and sometimes I still wonder what would have happened if I had just made the first move and asked her out when I found out she was quitting (we both had rules about not dating people we worked with at the time).

 

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. But if you don't try, you might keep wondering what could have been.

[p_fred]

I'd go for it!

 

At least try dating but take it slow... very slow... just because you worked in the same place doesn't mean you really know someone. Some people are totally different outside of work.

 

I did it and don't reget it but it was hard and things aren't going too well now...

 

The only hesitation from his side could be if you hang out with other people from his work he could worry what if things go bad between you... Can he trust that you will not to tell people things he doesn't want to be publicly known in his workplace.

 

Try not to talk about "work politics" or "work gossip" and it will be fine.

 

Good luck!