I feel absolutely terrible..

[revitalized]

Hi everyone..I just got off the phone with a friend and I was talking to her and I am the type of guy that hates keeping secrets with people..(u guys may think im stupid after the end of this.) but anyways so I told her a secret about my sister talking crap about her and saying that this girl had zits all over her and my mom said the same. (I met this girl at a party and my mom was there and my mom doesnt allow dating and im 20 years old!) anyways so yea they said that about her and I told her this and obviously she was upset and then she was crying..and said she had to go and I kept her on the phone for a few more minutes apologizing and I felt awful..I felt like crying it was just a terrible feeling hearing her talk with her nose plugged from crying..and I just wish I could make things better for her..I think im a total fool for telling her..but I felt like she had the right to know that my family was bad mouthing her..I just feel horrible and dont know how to fix this feeling..

[jzwhat21]

well you cant the damage is done what were you thinking when you got on the phone to tell her that? of course she is going to be very upset especially if it is true... i will be very surprised if she talks to you much ne more lol

[revitalized]

well I felt that she had the right to know so I was like "ok". she said she was happy I told her. so ironically its a good thing. but I just feel bad. but nothin I can do now. I hate keepin secrets and when people bad mouth others I just feel like they should know about it.

[NKP]

You never ever tell a girl stuf like that all you do is make them feel like crap. Give her flowers and tell her how beauitful she looks, etc. Make it up too her

[revitalized]

yeah I am going to try something to make her feel special. I am a fool for tellin her this but I am off to the mall tomorrow!

[NKP]

Okay thats great, hope it turns out well

[agent1607307371]

I don't think a present is going to make up for making someone feel ugly.

 

Sometimes, it's not about keeping secrets, it's about using discretion.

[hk87]

You aren't keeping something life or death from her, but as Agent said, using discretion is what it is all about! Don't upset someone like that again, no matter how bad you feel now, it was wrong of you to tell her.

 

Hk87