bogus_roster Posted August 26, 2003 Share Posted August 26, 2003 I had a boyfriend early in March this year, for a week. The next day after we slept together he announced he wants to be friends. I fell in love with him and hurt veyr much esp right now since im alone and dont wanna date anybody. Friends keep telling me that he's not worth me, or my time, he's a drinker and in general a bad person. But I cant help forgiving him everything, and still hoping for a re-union. I wanna get over him and move on, but I dont know how. A Tarot reader said he moved on a long ago, and never really had any plans for me, like he used to say he does. I feel disappointed in myself that I could be dumb enough to believe his plans and feelings he used to tell me, but never meant anything. I wish he suffered and came back and dropped to my feet and beg me to come back, maybe this way I will stop wanting him so bad. Its not fair telling young girls things just having the intention to only sleep with them and dump them. A lot of people who know us both, keep telling me that he didnt take me seriously because not too long ago, I used to be his friend's girl. Others tell me he couldnt get over the fact that I used to be with his friend, and so he dumped me first, not to get hurt. In the end, I just hate him and I wish he suffers, and Im sure he does, because he knows he wotn find anybody as sincere and loving, as me. Anybody who can advise me on getting over with it, please do. All appreciated, bogus_roster Link to comment
herve Posted August 26, 2003 Share Posted August 26, 2003 Hi there, sorry to hear that but the world is not fair and unfortunately it's full of people who don't care once they've got what they want from you. Let the wounds heal and move one, I know it's hard, going through this phase myself but there is nothing you can do. Love is a wonderfull feeling but in the same time it can blind you and your judgement may be impaired about the person you love. You think he is a nice guy , but in fact he is a jerk. Don't worry , it happened to a lot of persons already , you will heal and find someone who desserve you. Good luck Link to comment
alpha Posted August 27, 2003 Share Posted August 27, 2003 YOU HAVE TO KEEP LIVING. Don't force yourself not to think about him. Only true friends might help if you have any. But if you want to enjoy yourself again you have to clean up your heart. There is too much pain. Link to comment
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