I am trying to get a girl

[eXe333]

I have tried before, and failed. Now I am becoming scared. Sometimes girls give me a bad look, when I look at them, or smile. What else can I do. Also remember I am not the best looking guy out there.

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[musicguy]

Just be yourself. You don't need to impress anybody else...people keep on telling me to be confident. (I just got told that tonight at work)

[sidehop]

It's so true when they say "stop caring". It's not that you don't care about others, you just need to stop caring about how people would "think".

 

Just remember when you're comfortable, talking to your friends, families and anyone where you feel you don't need to pull a smile or trying 'hard'.

[Survictor]

Most guys I have dated have not been what most people would call handsome. When you like someone, you do not view them the same as most people. Inner confidence, laughter, committment to a good cause..... those things are what really get me!

 

Stop looking so hard!

 

xx

[Desperatelover76]

get your friends to introduce you 2 people, your bound 2 find one chick you like mate and when you do try go with her by just talkin 2 her then let it go naturally from there

[Budman]

Until you get up on a table and yell "Supercalafragalisticexpealadocious" and realize that does not hurt your chances with women (in some senses it increases your chances) you will continuously have those "weird looks"

 

Why because man, YOU ARE the man its simple dude.

 

You are giving them the opportunity of a life time. To go out with you!

 

It's a one in a million chance to be on a date exe333. WOOOO there is only one of you be you. Why wouldn't they want to go out with you I mean honestly. You have Good grammar, polite, a caring guy, and I'm sure you have lots of interests.

 

Why wouldn't they want to go out with you.

 

It took awhile for me to realize it, learn from my experiences. Just being confident enough to say something means a lot. Especially when you act or feel like it doesn't matter if they say yes or no.

 

because truly it doesn't!

 

The only thing that matters is if you ask!

 

Once you do your part the rest is out of your hands. The stress is off you man. I've said and screwed up on my wording said blahahahhelakhalhsdlahs because I screwed up a word, nu nut nuttrrric

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nutritio

 

nutrition.

 

See right there is a prime example, if you have confidence while trying to say something then it doesn't matter.

 

When you look like a sad puppy the girl is more likely to try and console you then go on a date.

 

There is no reason for them to say no, and all the reasons for them to say yes

 

My woman told me tonight, your looks don't matter to me, your personality shines through.

 

My response was, "What you don't think I'm cute" "Oh you're dead sexy baby"

[Deborah7]

Hey there. Just remember that old cliche' that there is someone for everyone. It usually happens when you stop looking. Good luck xxx

[GottaLetItBurn]

Act like a man. Don't be her tool, don't let her use you, draw boundires. Show her attention, but not too much. Just be confident. If it's meant to happen it will.

[iwishiknew]

I have tried before, and failed. Now I am becoming scared. Sometimes girls give me a bad look, when I look at them, or smile. What else can I do. Also remember I am not the best looking guy out there.

Thanks

 

I get that all the time also and I have tried many times and failed!

[stillwantinhim]

just keep at it you will find that someone for you that cares only for you be confident girls love that. they dont like someone they can run all over. stand up for yourself and show them you are the man.

[Dating Coach]

The two articles in my signiture should be "Must Reads" to you.

[eXe333]

get your friends to introduce you 2 people, your bound 2 find one chick you like mate and when you do try go with her by just talkin 2 her then let it go naturally from there

Every time I tell my friend, to ask his girlfriend, or him to show me a girl. They say they are all taken. I have failed so many times, in the clubs, I ask a girl to dance, she walks away, blahha. I maybe need to work like crazy to get the good looks. Everyone is saying, I got the cute baby looks, and the girls want the bad boy look.

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[Survictor]

A defeatest attitude is really unsexy.

[eXe333]

A defeatest attitude is really unsexy.

I went to the club with my friends. I tried talking to some girls, and none would talk, most should ignore me. I cant understand whats wrong with me.

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[iwishiknew]

I went to the club with my friends. I tried talking to some girls, and none would talk, most should ignore me. I cant understand whats wrong with me.

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Same thing happens to me all the time..

[eXe333]

Same thing happens to me all the time..

I am trying to find out whats wrong with me. Cuz i see other guys talking and dacing with so many girls.

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[eXe333]

Theres also a girl i really like but she told me we are only friends.

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[eXe333]

Could being a bit overweight, be part of the problem.

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[iwishiknew]

Yes I would think so...Many girls these days are picky..I know because I have been turned down many times because of my height.

[eXe333]

One friend, advice, just to ask a girl out, But I dont even know how to approach a girl.

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