Help! Almost 6 weeks since breakup

[Mickeysant]

Broke up with gf almost 6 weeks ago and trying to get her back. Painted her portrait that she knew nothing about,sent it to her and got an e-mail from her saying - no hard feelings and we'll talk in the near future. What do I do now? I am heartbroken and been crying ever since the breakup.

[NJRon]

Why did you break up with her if you want her back? Or did she break up with you? Why do you want her back? What happened to that girl you went out with a couple of times back at the end of September?

 

Have you read the book, "It's called a breakup because it's broken?" It's a pretty good read.

[Mickeysant]

She broke up with me. It was over something as small as a gift I didn't give her. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. Yes she is the same girl as last september in my last post.

[FallingTooFast]

If she broke up with you over something as small as a gift then she's not worth trying to get back. You'll find someone that apprectiates you and doesnt feel that you have to give them gifts. I think it's incredibly shallow of her to do that. You'll find someone. Don't worry

[Mickeysant]

At my age I know it won't be easy to find someone like her. we were compatible. She is everything I ever wanted in a woman,a partner and a lover. She's beautiful,caring,funny,thoughtful and sexy. I feel like we were meant to be together. We were in sync and could practically finish each other's sentences.

[NJRon]

From my understanding though, you only dated a few times. You have been broken up far longer than you were together. It doesn't seem like could really know her enough to know how compatible you two were... you seem to be infatuated with an image of her in your head that does not reflect reality.

 

If you two were compatible, she wouldn't have just broken up with you over such a thing. One thing I want in a love and a partner is someone who will stick around.

[Mickeysant]

we dated for a year. we were compatible and in sync, we could practically finish each others sentences. we were great together, I always made her laugh and we made a good looking couple.

[FallingTooFast]

Well sometimes being compatable doesn't always have to mean that you guys are meant to be in a relationship.

 

She may just end up beign a good friend. Or possibly you should have just stayed as friends

 

Try to talk to her about what you could be again.

If she says you can't be more than friends, then take it if you want, but be forewarned that it may hurt being close to her like that but not being able to be "close to her" like that.

 

Good luck

[Mickeysant]

Sorry,but I don't believe you could be friends with someone after being intimate with them. It doesn't work. For me anyway. I would always be thinking what could have been.

[Momene]

Trying to get back together with an ex has a poor success rate. Yes, splits are hard but people have got over them and moved to other relationships. I'm just one among billions.

 

Good luck.