ccbrat17 Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 heres the problem, i have been with my boyfriend since my first day of my new school,roughly a year ,but we have been firends for two years been through it all, he even loved me after the two times i have been to jail... he proposed to me last v-day, i mean we had a really good relationship aside from little tiffs here and there. anyway he moved to florida because his parents got a better job and we, especially i was not ready finacially to be on my own even with him. i went to stay with my papa in georgia for a while and he stayed with me for about two weeks (this happened twice but he could find a job there) but now the new relationship feeling is wearing off and even though i love him so very VERY much, i dont know what to do to help us.i dont want to loose him. i know people have to work on relationships to keep them stable but this is the first relationship of this magnitude ive been in...i just feel so lost and helpless, like he is slipping away from me and there is nothing i can do to help me and him... he has said he wont leave me but i know he can feel whats happening. i am so desperate for some ideas, input, ANYTHING!!!! Link to comment
kuhaaica Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 i am not really sure what advice you are asking for??? how to stay together while apart? How to stop him from moving on? Not really clear, thereforeeee i cant really speculate... Link to comment
ccbrat17 Posted November 3, 2006 Author Share Posted November 3, 2006 what i want to know is how to stay together while apart? and how to play around keeping things fresh if only on the phone Link to comment
Kamue Posted November 5, 2006 Share Posted November 5, 2006 thats definatly tough. sometimes in really intense relationships one can feel nervous and almost childish. first off, id make sure you do REALLY love him (not trying to sound rude or anything). because ive seen a lot of my friends sort of "get used to" thier partners and the relationship feeling somewhat disapears but they are so used to eachother, they dont want to leave. im not saying this is the case for you. ive had a long distance relationship before, and they are indeed tough. perhaps you could start with writing a letter or something; this way you know you both want to put in that kind of effort to hear from eachother. try something simple like that. sorry if this sounded rude or anything, its not intended to be good luck! Link to comment
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