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[Michelle24]

Today I'm really not doing well It's been over a week and still no response from my ex. I mean everything was fine. How can you spend practically every day and night with someone for 4 months and just dead them like they never existed. It's not like we got in a huge fight or I cheated on him..then..maybe I could understand. But I did nothing wrong.

 

I did everything for him. I taught him how to drive, paid for everything for the first two months when he didn't have a job, got him a job painting with my father, picked him up everywhere everyday...and as soon as his get's this job in the city, he acts as if he's too good for me.

 

I wish I could just forget him. Why does it have to be so hard. I don't want to be that ex who can't get over it. I've been in two 3 year relationships and never felt about anyone the way I do him

 

How do I get over this?

[sparkle1]

So what was the reason for the break up honey?

 

X

[Michelle24]

So what was the reason for the break up honey?

 

X

 

 

He said "we were at to different stages in life" Pretty much because I never went to school I guess.

[Michelle24]

So what was the reason for the break up honey?

 

X

 

You can also read my previous threads to give you an idea

 

 

 

 

[Mythical_Suicide]

Maybe it's just hard for him, and having NC with you is his way of dealing with the breakup.. Everyone deals with their emotions in different ways and as far as just getting over it that only comes with time.

[jengh]

I'm really sorry. How old are you? To me, and I truly hope I'm wrong here, it sounds like he may have used you a bit... You supported him, spent money on him, got him a job... when he felt you were no longer of any use to him, he bailed. I'm not saying he didn't/doesn't care for you, it may be a subconscious thing. But he's not too good for you, you're too good for him. The fact that you were so generous proves it.

[Dako]

Michelle

 

I agree with others that this guy isn't for you.

I find it odd that you teach him to drive, find him a job as a painter, and he's critical of your lack of a HS diploma.

 

How does his college experience help him paint?

 

I've run into this all my life, since I lack a college education. Some people drift into a form of snobbery. Many supposedly educated people don't even own a library card, but watch 3 hours of TV every night.

Education is a wonderful thing, but not as a tool to shame others.

 

Don't let this guy define your self-worth.