Listen2Morrissey Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Hi all, I'm 31 and I masturbate about 2 times a day. I may be a bit of an anomally because I never touched myself to completion until I was 21. I don't feel guilty but I would like to stop because not masturbating for about three weeks feels fantastic. There's much more of a sexual edge to me if I abstain for a while and it's kinda nice to have a half-a-chub going on all the time. It's hard for me to resist for that long if I have access to the internet. Does anybody have any mental and/or computer advice about how to stop masturbating? Are there any good free content blockers out there? What about ways to protect your 'hosts' file from modification so I could redirect myself somewhere else whenever I hit one of the usual sites? I know this seems like a total lack of self-control to install software on my own computer to prevent myself from going at it, but I really think it would help. Thanks for your advice! Link to comment
007 Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 To put it mildly...You need counseling, bro... Just playin', but you just have poor impulse control. It's all in your mind...Once you get control of your thoughts and urges, I bet you'll be walking around with a "half a chub" every day from that moment on. Best of luck to you... Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 I think there's a program called NetNanny or something similar. Link to comment
BillyJean714 Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Perhaps your doing it 2 times a day isn't as abnormal as you think? I'm not a guy so I wouldn't know. Your post reminds me of a class I once took in psychology. The guy's situation was way worse than yours. It was one of Freud's patients who Freud called "The Rat Man." The guy would literally masterbate every time he made a mistake or felt emberassed all throughout the day. His case is extreme. I doubt yours is. Link to comment
Tex1907 Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Well, the key here is to never be alone. Try to keep yourself in the company of others as much as possible. You are most vulnerable when you are by yourself. I would assume that another vulnerable place would be in the shower. When in the shower just try to wash up and leave as quickly as possible. Also, when alone try to visit a public place, so you won't be able to masturbate (I hope lol.) This really is not much to be concerned about though. All healthy Men masturbate at least several times a week. Most evidence suggests that they do it even more than women. Link to comment
Dako Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 If going without feels good enough, wouldn't you automatically stop wanking? I guess it's not good enough. If I didn't have room mates, I'd be going at much more. Link to comment
Fallout Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 lol it can become an addiction I know...software is not the solution tho because you'd end up uninstalling it to get to the good stuff...the being around people idea doesn't work too good either, you still go to the bathroom or shower a few times a day lol Maybe the best way would be a bet like they did in Seinfeld ? Link to comment
ForAnother Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 How long have you been like that? Cuz sometimes I'll masturbate 2 times a day for a month... then the next month like once a week. So how long has it been like this? Link to comment
Friendly Encourager Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 What's the big deal? If it feels good...and you are in private...do it! Link to comment
allgood Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 just keep urself busy and tired exercise alot and get plenty of sleep if ur tired and stressed thats when u get the urge its mental and physical so busy urself with other things and exercise alot and dont stress Link to comment
Corey Rydell Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Yep the key to cutting back on that is keeping yourself (especially your hands) busy and being around other people as much as possible. It's tricky though, because the longer I go without doing it the more I have the urge to do it. Link to comment
rocio Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Why do you want to stop? When I was in school and studying alot, I would do it 5, 6, even 7 times in a day just for relief. Why are you feeling guilty about it? That is what I would focus on. Link to comment
Juliana Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Two times a day is no big deal, if you're not in a relationship. I don't see what the concern is...? Link to comment
Dako Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 If I quit doing it twice a day, I'd need sleeping pills to fall asleep. I haven't noticed any downside to it after 40 years. I just worry about when my arthritis kicks in... Link to comment
Spugly Fuglet Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 A lot of adtions become adtions becouse we make the act or event an treat, we say to ourselfs once i have done this thing I dont like doing ill treat myself to some thing I like doing, over time this treat becomes a need and then the need an adation. Stop trating your self buy looking at porn and wanking off, find another trate for yourself some thing healthy. Get into books, musics playing any thing construtice and will get girls likeing you. Me I cook food, I like cooking and take my time to make good fresh and healthy food to eat, I never buy ready made food (ye never know whats in it) so all my cakes and stuff are my own making. (I do buy bread made form a nice bakers) do that and you PULLING OF THE PUDD will stop in no time Link to comment
Spugly Fuglet Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Why do you want to stop? When I was in school and studying alot, I would do it 5, 6, even 7 times in a day just for relief. Why are you feeling guilty about it? That is what I would focus on. WHAT OMG really man thats like thats like WOW 7 times in one day like I have had sex 4 times in one day but that killed me and I was 25 wow Link to comment
rocio Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 WHAT OMG really man thats like thats like WOW 7 times in one day like I have had sex 4 times in one day but that killed me and I was 25 wow Remember it's different for a woman. I don't really feel tired, in fact it gives me a boost. We can have multiple orgasms and come over and over. I wouldn't suggest a guy coming 7 times in one day. ouch. Link to comment
allgood Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 try cuttin back to man and build urself up say you'll only do it 2ce a week then after youve done that in amonth say 1ce a week then 1ce evry 2 weeks then 1ce every month etc. Link to comment
Listen2Morrissey Posted October 18, 2006 Author Share Posted October 18, 2006 Thanks for the advice everyone. I definitely have had luck cutting back when I'm on vacation or busy with things that are personally worthwhile. When I'm busy with stressful things (like work) it tends to get more frequent. Like I said, I absolutely don't feel guilty and I have gone through phases of doing it less and doing it more. BUT, I know I have a great edge to me and generally feel better if I stop for a while. Dreams (both erotic and normal) start coming back to me or at least I can remember them. So, no real advice for forcefully installing content software that I could give someone else the password for or something along those lines? I never really was a shower fan, I'm sure I could cut down a lot if I didn't have access to the internet. I know... such a lack of self control. Link to comment
asul100 Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 Why do you consider it a problem? It's probably you're upbringing. It's the initmate moment with yourself so enjoy it while you can - people medicate themselves to get it up.... Link to comment
femtotaslas Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 Remember it's different for a woman. I don't really feel tired, in fact it gives me a boost. We can have multiple orgasms and come over and over. I wouldn't suggest a guy coming 7 times in one day. ouch. True that Hazey! But you gonna end up using a F*&^%$g CUCUMBER! Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now