Hurt a friend, Feeling depressed

[RelaxByWater84]

I hurt a friend unintentionally. We were teasing and I said something that really offended and hurt her. She is not easily offended. And she is my roommate to make things worse. I feel so depressed that I hurt her and all. I apologized and she said it was ok. I still feel bad. And I feel like I'm a failure as a friend. I hate that I feel like a failure. I would rather plunge a knife in my heart than hurt any friend of mine. There is now this tension in the room. I hope things will work out. I just had to get this out to someone. Thanks for reading.

[DN]

Suit action to the words - do something special for her.

[annie24]

I agree - do something nice for her, tell her you really feel badly, that should shouldn't have said that. maybe get her some flowers or something special she likes.

 

good luck

[SkylinesTurnstiles]

Buy her choclates or maybe take her out to the movies or burn her a cd

 

Make it really well known that it was a mistake

[RelaxByWater84]

Just to give you an update my friend and I are on good terms. We all take jobs for our apartment and to rectify things I did her job.