I don't know why this is so hard for me?

[littleman]

Okay,

So theres this girl at school that I really like, and i'm pretty sure that she likes me too. I wan't to hug her, but I don't want to make it like awkward. any advice ?

[New_Horizons]

Have you guys talked at all? If not, she might be creeped out if you hug her out of the blue.

[need2bme]

New Horizons: Perfect. LOL

 

The first thing I thought too.

 

Talk to her and get to know her. I have a habit of touching people when I talk to them and need to break myself of it. I am a tactile person and some people have a problem with that.

[littleman]

we do talk alot, and know eachother pretty well. But what i'm hung up on is that i havn't asked her to be my girlfriend, so would it be weird like that?

[need2bme]

How about a quick hug and a quick "hey girl"? That couldn't hurt. You could then guage her response.

 

Hey, remember the episode on Seinfield where everyone was kissing him?

[New_Horizons]

Talk to her and get to know her. I have a habit of touching people when I talk to them and need to break myself of it. I am a tactile person and some people have a problem with that.

 

 

Damn, this brings up a painful memory. There was this lady (the ONLY woman who ever showed any interest in me) who used to touch me and compliment me every day even when I looked like a raggedy drunk just out of bed. I was SOOOO clueless, I thought she was just being nice! Wisdom dawned on me just recently. I wonder where she is now...

 

Hey littleman I would offer you advice if I was in a position to give it . If you do hug her, let us know how you did it and how it went.

[kupodude]

start a convosation with her get really deep into it (make shore you know shes intrested) then crack a little joke or a funny line or sumthing then move a bit closer if her face goes from a laugh to a really serious face suddenly YOUR IN! kiss her then ask her out a while after dun n dusted