2 questions (orgasm, clitoris) -------------

[Crystal_L0ve]

How do you know when you get an orgasm?

Everyone says, "Oh... you'll know." Ok, that's not helpful.

 

I've had my legs twitch like CRAZY, I start sweating (so does my b/f), I breathe faster, I feel like screaming, LOL. This is all from oral sex. I get this general rush.. I guess that's the way to put it. My b/f tends to sweat like crazy too and gets into it pretty much as I do. Sometimes I squirm so much because it's like "AHHH" and I tap him on the head a lot. I don't know why actually haha. It's like I feel embarrassed or I find it hilarious with the way I'm acting.

 

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And another question... do you girls get a sore clitoris too sometimes after getting oral sex? Sometimes when I pee and I wipe, it kinda hurts. It's sore from all the sucking on the clitoris my b/f does Does this happen to you too?

 

 

Heehee I feel funny asking these questions. But thanks for the comments!!

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

Q. 1. I think you haven't had one, because I can't imagine you'd have to ask if you had.

 

Q. 2. No, never been sore like you described. Suction can feel good, but if he's doing it too much for you, then you should tell him to try some other technique.

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

An orgasm from the clitoris kind of radiates from that area all over your body. It's as though it's the best feeling possible, as though you couldn't imagine anything more pleasurable.

 

Your heatrate will be through the roof when you come.

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

What ALS said, and you'll feel kind of weak, and oh, yeah, and forgot to mention that it makes you want him to get inside you as soon as possible immediately after.

[Crystal_L0ve]

Q. 1. I think you haven't had one, because I can't imagine you'd have to ask if you had.

This is the first time I've been doing this kinda stuff... so that's why I don't know.

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

This is the first time I've been doing this kinda stuff... so that's why I don't know.

 

Well, GF, just keep at it, and if it feels good, then have your BF stay at it. Keep in mind it typically takes women quite a bit longer to get there than men, but hey, if you're not getting it, then what's in it for you? You two just keep trying, you'll get there, and you will know for sure.

[randiandriien]

I've never gotten sore from an orgasm stimulated strictly from the clitoris, so I'm not sure what that could be from. I've never heard of it though.

 

As far as when he's giving you oral sex, please don't get offended, but maybe you get embarrassed by your actions because you're not ready to enter into that world yet? I could be wrong. However, other than that, if you're comfortable with him doing that to you, you should be comfortable with the way your body will react. Receiving an orgasm from a man's mouth is a very very powerful thing. And trust me, the more you squirm and say his name, the more he'll enjoy doing it for you.

 

Just relax and enjoy it. Also, I'm wondering if maybe he keeps doing it after you've had an orgasm? I can't handle that usually because it's too sensative, as with most women! Although, I think sometimes men try to be a little funny and hold you down for a CRAZIER ride!

[yeawutever]

Cuz it's when you start to fell like sorta of a vibration and then you'll know you had an orgasm (works also by masturbating).

[Crystal_L0ve]

As far as when he's giving you oral sex, please don't get offended, but maybe you get embarrassed by your actions because you're not ready to enter into that world yet? I could be wrong. However, other than that, if you're comfortable with him doing that to you, you should be comfortable with the way your body will react. Receiving an orgasm from a man's mouth is a very very powerful thing. And trust me, the more you squirm and say his name, the more he'll enjoy doing it for you.

 

Just relax and enjoy it. Also, I'm wondering if maybe he keeps doing it after you've had an orgasm? I can't handle that usually because it's too sensative, as with most women! Although, I think sometimes men try to be a little funny and hold you down for a CRAZIER ride!

I get embarrassed by my actions because this is new to me and I've never... had someone down there and never squirmed around so much in my life, it seems lol. It's hard to be "comfortable with him doing that to me" because we pretty much just started doing this... I think it takes time to be totally comfortable. Apparently, I'm comfortable enough with HIM since he's the first one to do this (and I'm the first one he's done this to).

 

Hahaha you're right too. The more I squirm around and say his name, the more he enjoys doing it to me. I can really tell cuz I can kinda hear him laugh a little bit and smile and he holds me down... it's like HE has control. He's one of those men who like to a little funny and DO hold me down for a crazier ride, too.

[randiandriien]

Hahaha you're right too. The more I squirm around and say his name, the more he enjoys doing it to me. I can really tell cuz I can kinda hear him laugh a little bit and smile and he holds me down... it's like HE has control. He's one of those men who like to a little funny and DO hold me down for a crazier ride, too.

 

Yeah, men like to be funny like that sometimes...it's gotten my fiance kicked once haha! (totally by accident though) Sometimes, too much is just too much!