Crystal_L0ve

I don't have sexual issues because I'm not sexual. I'm young and a virgin. Stop acting like it's such a crime to not fit in with everyone else and their sexual issues. Btw, my boyfriend says I don't need to reciprocate if I am not comfortable with it. He totally respects me. Our relationship is not built on sex. It's more than that. So give me a break.

That is the nastiest thing ever!!! I make my boyfriend wash his hands and his face (around his mouth). And then I make him use Listerine. THENNNN we can kiss. We've fallen into that ritual now. Sorry, but I don't want to eat myself. The last time he gave me oral, we sat and talked afterwards... then we started kissing. I TOTALLY forgot that he just gave me oral and I was screaming running to the bathroom to brush my teeth. He was cracking up the entire time. I KNEW this was going to happen. We would forget. And we did. There was a Sex and the City episode about this. Miranda found it absolutely grotesque to be "eating herself" by kissing the guy who just gave her oral. That episode was funny. You should really watch that show, if you don't already.

I get embarrassed by my actions because this is new to me and I've never... had someone down there and never squirmed around so much in my life, it seems lol. It's hard to be "comfortable with him doing that to me" because we pretty much just started doing this... I think it takes time to be totally comfortable. Apparently, I'm comfortable enough with HIM since he's the first one to do this (and I'm the first one he's done this to). Hahaha you're right too. The more I squirm around and say his name, the more he enjoys doing it to me. I can really tell cuz I can kinda hear him laugh a little bit and smile and he holds me down... it's like HE has control. He's one of those men who like to a little funny and DO hold me down for a crazier ride, too.

This is the first time I've been doing this kinda stuff... so that's why I don't know.

How do you know when you get an orgasm? Everyone says, "Oh... you'll know." Ok, that's not helpful. I've had my legs twitch like CRAZY, I start sweating (so does my b/f), I breathe faster, I feel like screaming, LOL. This is all from oral sex. I get this general rush.. I guess that's the way to put it. My b/f tends to sweat like crazy too and gets into it pretty much as I do. Sometimes I squirm so much because it's like "AHHH" and I tap him on the head a lot. I don't know why actually haha. It's like I feel embarrassed or I find it hilarious with the way I'm acting. ======================================== And another question... do you girls get a sore clitoris too sometimes after getting oral sex? Sometimes when I pee and I wipe, it kinda hurts. It's sore from all the sucking on the clitoris my b/f does Does this happen to you too? Heehee I feel funny asking these questions. But thanks for the comments!!