Is he gay??

[wolverine_2000mx]

Hello everyone, this it is another topic about the sexuality of a friend, the truth is that I like him very much, but I am not sure if he is gay or not I have been studying the university by fourth month periods, I've known him for almost 3 fourth month periods, the first fourth month period almost we did not speak, the truth is that he did not seem interesting to me, we began to talk to each other, because he needed help to study, and I offered to help him, after that we became friends.

 

The second fourth month period we had more classes together, and we could talk much more, He invited to some cool parties, and we ate together when we studied, in one of those occasions he asked me why I didn't have any girlfriend and subtly if I didn't have any interest in women (of course, I told him I do, I am not ready to say the truth), in an occasion when we entered the bathroom, he saw my private parts, since then I've been thinking if he could be gay. In another occasion when we went to a party, a guy had thrown something to the floor, The guy bends over to get it, and I could notice that he was seeing the guy * * *, nevertheless, in the party he was dancing with a girl (very cute by the way), and we ever took her to have dinner, and later he takes her to her house.

 

This fourth month period I do not have any class with him, and we don't see so much now, the main reason why I was decided to post in this forum, was because last Friday, a female friend told me that she told him that she was in love with him, and that they went out a few times, but in the end he rejected her with the excuse that he deals very badly with women (which is certain, that girl of the party never heard of him again), and my female friend said to me that surely he is scared of falling in love. But I ask myself if it will not be because he really likes guys, what you all think? Is he really scared of falling in love or does he like guys?

[TheUnbornDevil]

He very well mat be gay.. but thats not strong enough evidence... maybe you should get to know him better. i say its too soon to tell. If he is str8.. 4 sure, i suggest youforce yourself to stop likeing him the best you can, it never turns out very pretty.

[wolverine_2000mx]

Ok, maybe you're right, I should try to give this more time, thanks for your reply!!

[Managor]

You should never be presumptious over something like this, if the topic is brought up, try asking him what his opinion on homosexuality is, if he knows many people who are gay, etc, and see how he responds.