I did something stupid...

[guest2]

...now what? I tried to make the first move on a guy I like by, here comes the stupid part, fax.

 

Yeah, I know, hind sight is 20/20. Anyway, I sent him a fax saying hi and gave him my number and email and told him to contact me. But he hasn't.

 

I used an online fax messenger and the first several attempts said that the fax didn't go through. Finally I got a message that the fax was successful. Now I'm wondering if he hasn't contacted me because he's not interested or if he never actually received the fax.

 

What would you do?

[PRSOV]

I would stop stressing and just wait a while and see what happens...

 

but why are you faxing him? Don't you have any other way of contacting him? or is he a random that you don't know or have never met?

[BlueWolf]

I don't think that classifies itself as doing something stupid. It's actually smart because you went for it and made the move and are now waiting for results.

 

Good luck.

[annie24]

hm. yeah, I say faxing a guy isn't the best way to go, for this reason! they are so notoriously unreliable, plus, if it is a shared fax machine, someone else could have taken it instead!

 

aren't there other ways you could contact him?

[sumguy]

Never put the ball in someone elses court, that's my advice for you. Try calling him up and chatting casually?

[yeawutever]

Nope, you didn't do anything stupid, it's now up to him to respond to it. You just wnet for it and didn't waited, which is good. Though better ways are calling him or actually meeting in person.