Keeping an erection for more than one ejaculation

[dave1607306439]

ok, ive had this problem for sometime now but please, hear me out and try and give advise

 

ive masturbated since 12-13 and have never been for more than one ejaculation in a single session, after the first ejaculation i totally loose my erection. i thought, well it must be normal and when it comes to having sex i could ejaculate 4-5 times keeping a constant erection. im now 18 and have recently been seeing a girl, without using a condom we had sex - i lasted possibly a couple of minutes after which i lost my erection inside her and had to use the excuse - im tired.

 

when ejaculating semen basically dribbles out of the end and doesnt seem to have any power behind it, also when urinating the last drops i really need to strain out or else it dribbles. i dont know if this may effect my erection when cumming, but i feel that possibly without the power to come, semen that hasnt reached the length of my penis maybe would cause this discomfort and i loose my erection. im worried that i wont be able to ever regularly keep an erection for more than one ejaculation.

 

ive been to see my doctor who made me an appointment with a urologist but i havent seen him yet, it could be a damaged nerve which is effecting the flow power. i was wondering if possibly viagra would make me keep my erection?

[shinyhappyb]

Dude. I think it is not normal to have 4-5 ejaculation in 1 'session'. Think it's a little bit too much? Normally (I hope!) people have 1 orgasm in one session, man or woman, and in case of the men, they loose the erection. Sure, after a while, you may be able to start again.

 

B

[Lone Star1607306437]

I'd stop concentrating on having multiple orgasms, and concentrate on prolonging my sessions. I believe 30 minutes to 1 hour is plenty long.

 

If you aren't pleasing your partner, give her more foreplay. Anything less than 15 minutes is not enough. Be gentle and please her before having intercourse. If you feel like your going to blow it too quickly, pause and play with her some more. Then when you've maintained control of yourself, resume the position or try another.

 

I think you're way too young to be on viagra! I'd stick it in a vaccum cleaner first!

 

Good Luck w/yer malfunctioning member. I'm sure the doc will tell you to cool yer jets just a tad!

 

Lone Star *

[Chris Johnson]

When a man ejaculates and releases semen, his penis enters what's called a "refractory period". This is the time in which a male is unable to gain another erection until he calms down and comes off his sexual stimulation high. This could be anywhere from 5 minutes up to 20 or more depending on your age and other factors. I know that some young guys can masturbate, ejaculate, and then gain an instant erection again. This is simply hormones. At 18, you are maturing to the point where your hormones are not taking total control of you anymore. It seems to me that you might have a type of infection in your urinary tract like your doctor has said. Don't be alarmed, but you should also be tested for STD's. It never hurts to be sure you are clean. Stay safe and always use protection.

[Lightingbird]

Firstly,

 

Wait until you see your Doctor before you get worked up about all of this. It may be a physical problem.

 

Make a good list of questions and ask him/her at your appointment.

[Lightingbird]

Stress Not...

 

Wait until you go and see your Doctor. It could be physical problem that you are facing or something else. And he/she is best suited to help you on this.

 

Make a list of questions and let him have it when you speak to him.

 

But don't worry about it, Things will get better for you.

[porkshop]

i agree u should see a doctor if you're worried about the flow. Most men do only ejaculate once in a session so dont worry about that. i've been with a guy that could have multiple orgasms and aparently..but im a girl so im no expert .. if you want to be able to do it more than once you have to have a strong muscle down their, duno what the proper name for it is. You have to strenghten this muscle. (i dont know if im making any sense or confusing you more here.. Im how exactly sure how u lads do it but u might know what im talking about if i say when you can make it move slightly when its erect. If u practise doin that, it strengths this muscle and some people even put a hand towel on it as a kind of weight. im sounding crazy i know but this is what i heard. When that muscle gets stronger it helps a man be able to control ejaculation and be able to do it again. I guy who can do it would have to tell you more than that because that is as clued up on it as iam. hope it helped.

[IPAQ Dude]

I know what you are talking about. I got ahold of some sex manuals as a teenager and did the 'towel ups' exercise. I will attest, I've never had problems getting an erection - in fact, the reason I am here is my erection seems to last too long! --

 

I am 35 years old...and still, ten minutes after ejaculation, mine is still ready to go. Is this common? Sometimes I do experience pain from it. I have heard of cocaine users having this, but I've never touched the stuff.

 

Thanks,

I.D.