Shudder Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 lets say you know someone who you are not too close to like an acquaintance, neighbour, co worker etc and you know that this person was interested in you but you weren't interested in the same way. lets also say that this person was always trying to touch you in intimate regions either by tickling or by other means. would you a) let this person continue doing so? or b) tell the person some how that you dont want them touching you in that way? Link to comment
RayKay Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 Your intimate regions?! Like what kind of intimate regions!? I would tell them to stop it immediately. If it is at work, I would be going to my higher ups to report sexual harrasment, and if they did not stop whomever they were I would be getting a restraining order or something against them. Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 If I didn't want it, I would tell them to stop, no matter who it was or where. If it was someone I was sort of afraid of, I would tell my parents, a teacher or my boss. Link to comment
hk87 Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 Tell them to stop!! Your not interested full stop. Don't let anyone touch you in a way you are not comfortable with. Tell them to stop otherwise you will report them. Hk87 Link to comment
coollady1957 Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 I agree with the other posts. If this is something that you are comfortable with and you are not interested in them in that way, by all means tell them to stop or that you will have to take other actions to put a stop to it. Even if it were some one you were interested in, they still have no rights to touch you in intimate or private places unless you allow and want it. Link to comment
JJRadical Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 What a clueless fool...see a lawyer...they won't even go to court...they'll settle. Link to comment
Shudder Posted June 9, 2006 Author Share Posted June 9, 2006 ok let me clarify my question. i just wanted to know whether you would let somebody touch you around say waist/stomach area if you were not interested in that person. Link to comment
coollady1957 Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 ok let me clarify my question. i just wanted to know whether you would let somebody touch you around say waist/stomach area if you were not interested in that person. The answer is NO for me. Link to comment
Luke Skywalker Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 Technically, I have a residual attraction for anyone, and for the sake of argument because I'm interested in every person, as long as it's the opposite sex, and since it's a perpetual novelty. I have been touched before by people who were married and I'd have no interest in and enjoyed it. Just politely tell this person not to touch you and he probably will not. People want to feel connected with people, that's why they touch. This lawsuit thing or complaining for harassment is rather harsh, you wouldn't shoot a dog that came up to you and licked you - so I think those reactions are similar to that. Link to comment
candykisses Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 this person was always trying to touch you in intimate regions a) let this person continue doing so? or b) tell the person some how that you dont want them touching you in that way? tell this person to **** off or report this person for sexual harassment Link to comment
Haven Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 Whoa. Definitely don't let that person keep touching you. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted June 10, 2006 Share Posted June 10, 2006 I would firmly tell this person that he/she is NOT to touch me, and that it is not appropriate. Is this happening to you? Link to comment
Shudder Posted June 10, 2006 Author Share Posted June 10, 2006 Is this happening to you? not exactly. i was asking the question as if it were from the other person's standpoint and wat the reaction would be like.... Link to comment
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