baller_baby21 Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 umm this is for the ladies but guys you could anwser if you know anything. if a guy keeps complimenting you and keep saying things 2 make you like him do you call him a try hard? Link to comment
alteer Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 Ummmm not necessarily. It sounds like he is just showing his interest. How else is he supposed to? You aren't interested in him I take it? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 What's a "try hard" Link to comment
baller_baby21 Posted May 22, 2006 Author Share Posted May 22, 2006 lol ha ha i am a guy and a try hard is a person thats tries to get 2 be in that position so much he keeps trying and trying which gets annoying Link to comment
CluelessGuy321 Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 My friend's dad compliments me all the time, but mainly because I can fix his networking issues eaily. You know what they say: "Flattery will get you everywhere." Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 Over-complimenting, yes, I might think of the person as a try-hard. Someone who tries to be something to someone else by phony efforts. Compliments are good in moderation and if they seem genuine. Too much can come accross as phony. Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 yeh - my words exactly itsallgrand Link to comment
Jennster Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 It's only nice if the compliments are sincere - if we feel they are not sincere, then yes they become annoying Link to comment
alteer Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 lol ha ha i am a guy and a try hard is a person thats tries to get 2 be in that position so much he keeps trying and trying which gets annoying OMG I'm sorry...don't know why I thought you were a girl In that case then no, I wouldn't think of you as a try hard if she is showing at least some signs of interest. But then again if she isn't then find someone else to compliment. Link to comment
Budman Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 I think the term we're looking for is unconfident guys. A confident guy won't feel the need to compliment every second. Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 umm this is for the ladies but guys you could anwser if you know anything. if a guy keeps complimenting you and keep saying things 2 make you like him do you call him a try hard? Trying to say things to get her interested is a very weak approach. You are sending signals that you aren't confident that she will like who you are on her own. You are sending desperate signals which is a huge turnoff. Girls do spend a lot of time getting ready and making themselves look good for a date, so to be a gentleman you should notice and compliment the work she did, but limit yourself to ONE compliment a night. If you are good at giving her a meaningful compliment, one is enough, you get your point accross, she is happy, and you don't look desperate or fake. Link to comment
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