For the ladies a quick question plz anwser

[baller_baby21]

umm this is for the ladies but guys you could anwser if you know anything. if a guy keeps complimenting you and keep saying things 2 make you like him do you call him a try hard?

[alteer]

Ummmm not necessarily. It sounds like he is just showing his interest. How else is he supposed to?

 

You aren't interested in him I take it?

[renaissancewoman101]

What's a "try hard"

[baller_baby21]

lol ha ha i am a guy and a try hard is a person thats tries to get 2 be in that position so much he keeps trying and trying which gets annoying

[CluelessGuy321]

My friend's dad compliments me all the time, but mainly because I can fix his networking issues eaily.

 

You know what they say: "Flattery will get you everywhere."

[itsallgrand]

Over-complimenting, yes, I might think of the person as a try-hard. Someone who tries to be something to someone else by phony efforts.

 

Compliments are good in moderation and if they seem genuine. Too much can come accross as phony.

[AwdreeHpburn]

yeh - my words exactly itsallgrand

[wlfpack81]

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[Jennster]

It's only nice if the compliments are sincere - if we feel they are not sincere, then yes they become annoying

[alteer]

lol ha ha i am a guy and a try hard is a person thats tries to get 2 be in that position so much he keeps trying and trying which gets annoying

 

 

OMG I'm sorry...don't know why I thought you were a girl

 

In that case then no, I wouldn't think of you as a try hard if she is showing at least some signs of interest. But then again if she isn't then find someone else to compliment.

[Budman]

I think the term we're looking for is unconfident guys.

 

A confident guy won't feel the need to compliment every second.

 

 

[Dating Coach]

umm this is for the ladies but guys you could anwser if you know anything. if a guy keeps complimenting you and keep saying things 2 make you like him do you call him a try hard?

 

Trying to say things to get her interested is a very weak approach. You are sending signals that you aren't confident that she will like who you are on her own. You are sending desperate signals which is a huge turnoff.

 

Girls do spend a lot of time getting ready and making themselves look good for a date, so to be a gentleman you should notice and compliment the work she did, but limit yourself to ONE compliment a night. If you are good at giving her a meaningful compliment, one is enough, you get your point accross, she is happy, and you don't look desperate or fake.