Do U Still Look Them Up?

[Cute Band Rat]

I was wondering if anyone has broken off with someone but then out of curiosity still look them up? I mean look to see if their email account is still active or if they still have the same number? Do you do this out of sheer curiosity or because you miss them?

[AwdreeHpburn]

I still look up exes and I've been married for 8 years.

[moink75]

At first it was because I missed him. Once I was over him I did not waste my energy. This sounds harsh, but why should I care about the person that no longer cares for me. Put your energy into something that will benefit YOU.

[Cute Band Rat]

Tee rae? Do you look just to see if they are still around? Do you actually contact them or just "look them up"?

[AwdreeHpburn]

well cbr - I think I'm a bit on the obsessive side - and utterly bored, but I just look. Just to see where they are, if they're still around and if they've done anything cool.

 

Ok well, once I contacted a friend of one of my exes. Just to go the round about way to seeing about him. Its pathedic really and I know it. But I do it.

[goddess23]

it realllly depends on the individual. personally...i dont have the desire to be with someone yet i want to know about them out of curiosity because i WILL ALWAYS LOVE those people just in a different way. make sense>?

[Cute Band Rat]

LOL Tee..I appreciate your honesty. No judgements from me

I wonder if this is just an obsessive tendency, because I do it too, or maybe I'm bored as well. Haha!! So I guess I wonder if I do it, then maybe our exes do it too. Maybe its just human nature?

[AwdreeHpburn]

I was wondering on which end you were.

 

Were you wondering if others did as you do - or if your ex is googling you.

 

Little of both huh?

 

I often wonder if my exes look me up to. And I wish there was a way to find out. I'd pay to know I think.

 

But I doubt they'd find me. I'm married and they most likely don't know my married name....

[Cute Band Rat]

I know my ex'es mail address and phone number. he dumped me. I have looked up previous ex'es though. I cancelled my email account that my recent ex knew, so if he tried, he'd see I'm gone.

[itsallgrand]

No. No. No. No. lol. I have obsessive tendecies, and if I allowed myself to do that, I'd probably end up in trouble.

 

Or I'd simply go mad in the skull....whoops, too late!

[Jorus Cbaoth]

If any of my ex girlfriends got in a car wreck and died, I wouldn't care. It feels like another person that was in those relationships years ago. My honey brought out all my good qualities, and I settled down and now I have a wonderful life and family. No reason to stir up mistakes from the past.

[jumper]

I have to say that since my gf broke it off with me a month ago, I still go to her myspace (which she just started after the breakup) to see what shes doing. I know, I shouldnt do it, but now I see her trying to hook up with all these men, leaving them I love you stuff. In a way, it makes my mind feel better about the whole breakup (like dang, I am glad I am not going to spend my life with someone like that), but it does sometimes hurt my heart to see those things. I mean her site looks like shes almost desperate for a man. I see myself looking at her site less and less.