Friendship Vs Love

[hk87]

What do people think?

 

I have known a guy since Sept. Pretty soon he knew I was interested in him, but he had a g/f until Dec so couldn't do anything. So nothing ever happened. I went to stay with him in March for a few days and had a great time. Him and I spend a lot of time together due to committments at work and we're close. Many people think we are dating, but we aren't. He isn't as emotionally open as me, so I doubt he would ever tell me how he's feeling.

My question is- will we ever be more than friends, or has that chance passed?

I don't know what to do, this is driving me nuts, please help.

[WhiteNite]

Hey hk87,

 

I'm in a similar predicament. I met this girl through work about a month ago and we have been spending a lot of time togoether. She unfortunately has a boyfriend but I think she is possibly confussed about her feelings towards me. I suppose it needs someone to take the intiative. In my case I have backed off a little so she can work out what she wants. Maybe not the most proactive move but I am trying to protect myself. In my mind she is seeing two people. Me for the emotional support and the boyfriend for the physical. Don't get me wrong, I am more than capable of having female friends but regardless of gender there are limits of closeness that I am comfortable with. I suppose that is something you need to determine. Hope this helps.

 

WN

[Momene]

If you don't have any other attachments, rip his clothes off and let nature do the rest!

 

Seriously? Try brushing his arm and see how he reacts. He seems comfortable. Try holding his hand ...

 

Get the idea?

[hk87]

Well, when we sit next together in class, our legs touch, or arms or something. He doesn't mind it, but I think it's because I explained I'm really touchy feely normally. It's really weird, because in some respects we seem like more than friends, but it others it's like we are worlds apart! I can't risk telling him again, it's his turn.

[Momene]

Well, when we sit next together in class, our legs touch, or arms or something. He doesn't mind it, but I think it's because I explained I'm really touchy feely normally. It's really weird, because in some respects we seem like more than friends, but it others it's like we are worlds apart! I can't risk telling him again, it's his turn.

 

Give him a cuddle! I don't think he'll object.

[hk87]

We're best friends, so I can get a cuddle if I want. My main problem is I don't know whether he is interested in more or not, and I don't want to get hurt again

[Momene]

Kiss him. Full smacker on the lips!

[hk87]

Thanks, but no chance!!!

[Highspeed123]

Just tell him how you really feel, the only way you will find out is by taking the first step. You need to know how he feels about you, get your confidence together and ask the question..It can only end in two ways. Hopefully for you it will be a positive answer.