More than friends but a little far away

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

Well here's my story, lately there's been this girl that goes to a different school then me granted it's only 15 minutes away, but then again we're both 15 i'll be getting my license in september, so neither of us can do much of anything right now, but lately we've both been getting more into each other like more laughing and more smiling and more opening up to each other.

 

i've been trying to get her to go to a concert with me and one of my friends (who is obviously driving down there but i want to get a little more serious but not too much since it wouldn't work right now.

 

what to do? thanks

[itsallgrand]

Well, keep doing what you're doing me thinks.

 

I'm crossing my fingers that she makes it to the concert with ya'. That'd be fun.

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

the thing is i don't know if she feels the same way about me, i think she knows that i'm interested in her but isn't for sure, so i don't know where to go from here

[itsallgrand]

I think you just have the normal amount of nervousness of finding out if she's interested for more, too.

It sounds like you're doing a lot right: taking it nice n' slow, getting to know her, smiling, asking her out.

Just continue with what you are doing. Keep spending time with her when you can.

An invitation to a concert should give her a good idea that you like her!

 

And soon...you'll have your license and things would be a lot easier to see her. 15 mins really isn't bad at all.

 

good luck

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

see the thing is one night she'll be acting like she's interested and some nights she'll act like i'm not even there and some days she'll just be a friend and it's usually a fair balance of this

[itsallgrand]

Girls can be confusing-I used to be one!

 

I wish I was more help, but that's pretty standard. Remember: she's pretty new to the whole thing too, so she might act a bit 'strange' sometimes.

Just roll with it and have fun.

 

I'm really pulling for you.

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

thank you so much for your help, and thanks for the hope i'll keep you updated