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[smashing_pumpkin]

If a shy guy is truly into you and you ask them say, "hey do you wanna go to the movies with me and my friend some time...?" what are the chances of him rejecting me? For the shy guys: Would you turn down a girl you like and you don't ask her out but she asked you to do something??? and if you would turn her down...WHY!!!!! ...im this close to asking this guy out but i'm afraid ...mainly cuz he apparently likes me but he never called me :splat:

[whitefang]

From what you've said it sounds like he's probably waiting for you too make the first move. But then again i could be wrong because eveyone is different, the only way to get your answer (pure and simple) is by asking him.

 

There is a chance at rejection, but it's highly unlikely if this person likes you already. Play it casual and cool and just ask him out and have fun.

[CluelessGuy321]

Everyone is different. I would jump @ the chance if asked by a girl.

[coollady1957]

I would think if he is in to you, that he would accept. You will never know unless you ask, so I say take the chance and casually ask him just like you worded it in your post.

[Cooperstown]

Being the shy guy you stand a better chance of doing something one on one then in a group unless it's a group of his friends.

[smashing_pumpkin]

Really? one on one is better? ...but we always talk to him 2gether and he seems rather comfortable ...i'd be sooo nervous one on one with him

[thatshyguy]

I can think of a couple good reasons for saying no initially.. does he know the "friends" that hes joining besides you?

 

I mean.. to a shy guy.. a group of unknown girls is a scary thing.. like whoa..

 

But other then that.. it could just be initial shock reaction that yields the normal safe answer along the lines of .. "can't i have stuff"

 

In retrospect.. i missed alot of chances.. doh!

[Daddy Bear]

i love it when a girl takes the bull by the horns and asks me out, and i'm only this shy. *holds fingers a hair apart*

 

but if she says "with me and my friend" then i'm like, "uhhh..."

[Markers]

if he's into you, he won't say no.. don't say you're going with friends though, he could think u want to be friends only and that could result in him saying no (to the supposed friend thing)