is love a form of weakness

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is it weak to have a crush on some one? is the crush in its self just a way of avoiding your fears by occuping your mind with the thought of someone else? is to truly depend on some one the sacrfice of free will to another, the sacrifice of cohice and in turn responcibilty for your own actions, and is this in its self a form of supreem agroance, to expect someone to shoulder your burders through so called love? dose true love exist? or love at all even? or is all that there is lust? and not wanting to face this fact we invent the notion of love for our own benfit? then in this sense is love the supreem form of agorance or the final denial of our own fears?

 

 

just some questions i have been thinking about lately and was hopeing some one could anwser for me

cheers

[pi_anochik]

No, love is most certainly not a sign of weakness! If anything, love takes courage and determination. Having a crush on someone shows that you are human.

 

Love is caring for someone so much that you want the best for them, and you want them to have a great future and life, even if it isn't for you. Love is the courage to ask someone to spend the rest of their life with you. Love is trusting yourself to another person, having the faith that they aren't going to hurt you. Love is blind.

 

Love can be the best thing that ever happened to you, but it can also cause pain beyond thought.

 

But most of all, love is what you make it to be. You have to believe in love. Nobody can answer these questions and give you answers that will satisfy you except yourself. You need to search yourself. Ponder...ask yourself these questions. Listen to everyone's answers that you will get, and use them to help you build on your own ideas.

[crookster_man]

What is weakness? You speak of weakness as arogence, as an attempt to place our worries and fears upon another. In true love we do not place our worries upon another, we share them. Love is not about offloading our fears and insecurities; it's about facing them together about overcoming them. So in a sense love is strength.

 

When you speak of weakness I assume you mean the risk of pain. The fact that we would act in a self destructive way to preserve love. Well there is a saying "One man defending his home is stronger then 10 hired soldiers". We all have things that we would fight and die for. Does this make us weak? Should we abandon what we love to save ourselves? Sometimes standing for what we believe in, what we love is more important then losing a fight.

 

One last thing, a man in love has a reason to fight, has a reason to press on. Sure this love could be used against him. But does not every person have a breaking point. No one is infaliable, but not everyone can love. When we grow we are stronger. Experience and knowledge makes us powerful.