is it worth it?? please help

[cleveland9]

me and thsi girl have talked, and we both arent really interested in becoming a couple, but we have talked about just getting together and makin out and doin other stuff(not sex, we both arent at that stage)...but i was wondering, this girl isnt really a girl that hangs out in my "clique" and i dont know if i do anything,will this hurt my reputation? should i just not do it?

[in_the_mirror]

i agree with mystikue. i think also that it could hurt both your reputations her being a slut or hoe often goes around. i think you should only do this stuff with your girlfriend.

[cleveland9]

we have talked to e/o and understand, its more of a no strings attatched thing

[Genesis]

There is no such thing as no strings. Sooner or later someone will want more than what the other is giving. I would find a girl in your group that you would like to make your girlfriend. People will find out about you guys. It really does not matter about what group she hangs out with. But when you are young I guess it does matter. I say forget her and find someone else in your social group.

[musicchicus]

Women, especially girls, are incapable of having "just making out" or "Fooling around" relationships - for the most part.

 

She will end up attached and you will have a much bigger problem on your hands.

 

Just say no!

[Versa]

I agree with Genesis & musicchicus, but guys can suffer this too (wanting more). I have been in this situation and said no strings, but there are always strings.