Advice anyone?

[seally]

OK this is my dilemma. How do I spice up giving oral to my bloke? At the moment he seems to be into tight, fast and deep, which can be quite painful at times for a start plus and the real problem is its the same system every time. He seems to really really enjoy me doing it and I don't wanna stop it he is a very generous lover. Any ideas to stop in being the same?

 

P.s Hates his testicles being touched at all so any ideas with that are a no-no. Oh and he hates them gentle kisses on his thighs etc - it bores him!

 

Thanks in advance!

[in_the_mirror]

well this guy seems to like it when you just get to business if he is really liking it don't change it. if it is working why fix it?

[seally]

Cos he is getting rougher and rougher with me and it hurts

[in_the_mirror]

wait are you talking about sex or just oral...either way if you don't like that it hurts you need to tell him and ask him what else would feel good that isn't at your expense in pain...

[seally]

During actual sex it kinda likes the pain thing. Men! I meant just oral! Some tips to calm it down

[Ash]

You say he's a generous lover, but he's hurting you? That doesn't sound generous at all.

 

Have you told him he's too rough? He needs to know. You have choices too. You should be in control over what happens to you. It sounds like he's getting carried away. If he's truly into rough stuff and you aren't ... then you need to talk about this now before it goes any further. Just try to get him to back down a little in that respect.

 

Is oral the only thing you do? Perhaps you could lube up your hands and do him hard and fast that way.

[seally]

I don't mind doing it and I prefer actually sex rough but not oral cos well.. its sometimes painful. I might try the hand thing, he does like that but prefers oral. I swear its an addiction! lol